Girls why did she add me on Facebook?

[Anonymous]

this girl I work with asked me today why I never accepted her friend request on FB, I told her I never got it, asked her multiple times and she swears she sent one, so I sent it from my phone and she added me, but if she wanted me to add her, why didn't just ask if I had FB?

The thing is, I'm FB friends with most of the people I work with (there's 9 other people I work with, I'm FB friends with 6 of them), some that she talks to more often, and she isn't friends with any of them on FB, so I can't understand why she'd have sent me one, since we don't talk much anyway, and she has a boyfriend. I'm confused.

[Paris13]

Sweetie, don't over think this. Now that she Has "added" you, you can both share some friend- zone time on There, chatting in the box, rather than virtually no convo working in some cubicle. And perhaps This was Her whole idea. Think about That.

Although she has This boyfriend, I don't see here where she is married, and if you go on her stats, you will see that she's Not. Maybe things are not all hunky dory in her Stats with him, and this is her reason. Nonetheless, her motives for adding you are her own, she apparently likes you, and being she hasn't put any other work buds in her list of friends, just tells me she is into getting to know you better.

Still confused?:))xx

[coldxgal]

oh she has boyfriend..first I thought that maybe she likes you and she wants to get to know you more and stuff ..but she has a bf..aha..confusing ish ey haha

[Scoopie]

Some people just feel the need to collect all the people they know on Facebook, even if that means not talking to each other on Facebook or real life. And maybe she wants to be Facebook friends so that she could potentially contact you through it, instead of emailing, calling, texting. Or she could be interested in what's on your profile. Or it's the first thing I mentioned...

[Asker]

I get that. What confuses me is she said she sent me a friend request that I never got, we don't even talk that often, but she didn't send isn't friends with anyone else I work with.

[Scoopie]

Maybe has some other, 3rd party, interest in you or your profile? Perhaps she did send it but to the wrong person?

[Paris13]

Could be just this "error" when she tried to send, and it didn't reach me..Has happened to me..stay cool..xx