Why didn't she add me on Facebook?

[Anonymous]

I met this girl at a party yesterday and we talked for a short bit. I really like this girl. And we made a lot of eye contact at the party. She gave me her cake because she was too full and asked if I want something to drink. Keep in mind that she's a good girl...doesn't drink, smoke, clubbing etc etc. She's also never had a Boyfriend ... I just screwed up by not talking to her enough last night. Oh well.

I added her on Facebook... is this a indication that she isn't interested in me? Or could there be a million other reasons why she didn't add me.

I have no other way of talking to her as of right now..since... I don't know her really lol. I only met her through two of my friends (They're together).

[PeachesAndCream]

Woahhh your getting all worked up about Facebook and a girl you talked to for not even that long? Give her some space if someone was like this over me I probably wouldn't accept them on Facebook either! Don't get me wrong I'm sure your lovely and I'm sure she was a lovely girl too, but by the sounds of it she was pretty shy anyway... she's never had a boyfriend she doesn't drink or smoke or go clubbing, so that may suggest she's not very good in social situations? I don't know there could be a million reasons why she didn't accept you as a friend or maybe you should just send her a message on there you don't have to be a friend to do that, just say hey its... (your name) met you at the party the other night hope you don't mind me adding you on here! :) speak to you soon x ... something along those lines will do fine.. but trust me you have nothing to worry about. good luck

[Hippy]

If you only added her yesterday you need to give a little more time she may have been to busy to get onto Facebook yet.

[MadHatterni]

Prob wasn't interested in a relation at the moment and prob saw you cared and didn't want to comfront you. On the other hand she could of denied you due to she had mixed feelings. There is a tons of possibilities. I suggest move on and if she was interested at least you tried and she would ask your friends for some contact. You like her, so it raises your worrying and stress to a higher level.

[AlanHB]

She could have also not logged into her Facebook, or she might have forgotten who you are. If you didn't talk to her much at the party, she might have forgotten.

For future reference, if you like a girl, get her number.

[Asker]

Wow damn...so basically ... I just screwed myself over because of this? ARGHHHHHH

I feel so stupid right now. I hope she remembers me..... and that she didn't logon to Facebook. Next time I see her, I'll man up.... I'm just gonna sleep this off...=/