Why is Pickleball so hard to get the hang of?

[Iquestioneverything]

I took a beginner course and joined a starter league, it’s been 4 weeks and I am the worst player! I was told it’s an easy to learn sport and not too strenuous but it’s hard for me.
I have trouble remembering the rules as I play especially the two bounce rule, and I either hit the ball too gently or too hard out of bounds. I never know to hit the ball when it’s in the middle of the court or let my teammate hit it. We collide or both miss the ball because of my confusion. I thought maybe it’s hard for everyone, but all the other new players picked up the games rules our first night. Out of 45 players I am 45th place with 0 wins (the only one with 0 wins). I feel humiliation instead of having fun. Nobody will practice with me at the park either which isn’t helping.

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1 y

I tried watching videos over and over and they don’t help. I only remember playing in person not watching others

[PeterLegg91]

What's pickleball? Never heard of it , then again I'm British so maybe not known here

[PeterLegg91]

Had your baby yet?

[Iquestioneverything]

Look it on YouTube it’s a sport similar to tennis. I’m still pregnant 🤰

[PeterLegg91]

Oh cool and will do :) still wearing jeans with a belt?

[Iquestioneverything]

Yes, but soon I will be too big to 😅

[PeterLegg91]

Omfg 😆

[exitseven]

maybe carrying around a baby is the issue?

[jahaims]

Well if children can learn it in one p. e. class I would assume you are slow.

[AI Opinion]

Pickleball can indeed feel challenging at first, but practice and patience are key. Focus on the basics: grip, stance, and footwork. The two-bounce rule, where the ball must bounce once on each side after the serve, is crucial. Practicing with a partner can help you get comfortable with shots and player positioning. Watching online tutorials can reinforce the rules and strategies. Most importantly, enjoy the learning journey, and soon enough, you'll see improvement. Keep pushing forward! 🏓😊

[exitseven]

I thought that the whole idea of Pickleball is that is is easy to learn and not too strenuous. I think it was designed for the elderly.

[Iquestioneverything]

That’s what I was told, I’m having people in their 60’s beat me! But plenty of young people play and do excellent. There’s something I’m not understanding but nobody helps me to figure out what that is

[exitseven]

does the pickleball place have any instructors. maybe a lesson or two will help.

[eagle1951]

Looks easy to me, like bad mitten.

[Iquestioneverything]

You have to play it, watching it always looks easier ☺️

[Aldan1609]

I'm have to check that out