lol sounds like a loser :P
He is indeed. He can write a long essay if the topic is about sex.
lol needs a new hobby
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well you can't just say 'sorry i gotta go' through text too?
That's what I'm saying; if you tell someone over text that you have to go, they're just going to message you later. You never actually "leave" the conversation, just put a pin in it.
ok then you can just block them right?
Yeah, but I'd rather them take the hint on their own than block them because if I jump straight to blocking then I'M the asshole
you can give them one hint i suppose. but after you are definitely not the asshole despite how the other guy may feel about it
lol yes i do
Something tells me you are implying I'm talkative 🤣
a little ;)especially with game stuff :P
mind if i dm you sometime. you're quite interesting :)
Sure go for it, I'm not the fastest as responses, especially on days like today where I'm pretty swamped with work.
so why not just not reply at all all the time if you're not into it?
You mean say nothing? Cause that's rude. (Unless the other person is being rude or lewd or whatever.) We're all still human. One person makes a decent effort, so should the other. But timing should not be whenever one wants it. It has to work for both people.
not getting a reply does suck yes and i'd much rather get one simple explanation for why they don't wish to continue talking to me but one word answers can still give the impression you still wanna talk to them for people.
Well I don't give one word answers.But are you saying you would prefer a no-answer over a one-word?
yeah cause it sends a much clearer message to me. even if it sucks
Your response/conclusion should be, "Okay, I got a reply. So they're not totally rude. But I won't reach out again. If they want to, they will contact me." That's it. The solution here should not be encouraging silence.
eh i disagree sorry. i just hate ambiguity
Yeah I see that. Your questions are often about things that don't have clear answers. It's either split votes, or a little of all of them. Same thing here.
yeah i just like to understand things better.
you say they have to golike "ok you gotta go dude" or something like that?
“I have to go.” Then I will reply to anything missed later. 😎
but it wasn't intentional? you just do it sometimes?
Oh I can do it intentionally. However usually I just tell someone straight out, I can be a bit direct Depends how I feel at that moment.
Is it on purpose though?
Not to the point of replying short so they will stop talking because I'd just stop replying if I didn't want to talk but more like replying short because the conversation needs much more substance to get me to reply more.
I don't know if that makes any sense
Yeah makes sense. I try ti make mine interesting but obviously there will be lull moments
Right cause its still a bit ambiguous giving short replies. Ignoring is more definitive
don't you feel like just leaving is better though? some people just don't get the hint well
@Still-alive Yes leaving would be much better
ok so why not do that instead?
good. its better that way. some people just don't get it