How come some girls whom I'm following on IG haven't read my messages I sent to them? The word "seen" is not visible even tho I send them 3 messages?

Some girls have read my messages as the word "seen" is written but some girls whom I'm following ( but they aren't following me) haven't read my messages since the word "seen" is not visible. Do they have to follow me back for them to see my messages?
How come some girls whom I'm following on IG haven't read my messages I sent to them? The word "seen" is not visible even tho I send them 3 messages?
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