Single AF (No Friends): 10 'Valentines Day' Ideas

[sugarchateau]

I'm a girl, this will be from a girls point of view:

1. Set the mood with some lighting.

Redecorate your room somehow.

2. Make yourself a treat

Treat yourself.

or make a romantic breakfast, for yourself.

3. Write yourself a love letter.

Or write '10 things I hate about you'.

4. Get on Omegle or Chatroulette with some ice cream

5. Reflect over why you might be single, while in a hot tub.

You don't have to shave. (Optional: Get stupid substance)

6. Take a hike or a romantic walk by yourself.

Howl at the moon.(at night?)

7. Burn sage. Start a bonfire of old valentines, old gifts, old letters.

Destroy something that is easy to clean up without hurting others or yourself.

8. Sing and dance your heart out alone in your room.

Your choice of music! or hula hoop naked.

9. Just start rollerblading, take a bike ride or skateboard into a pool.

10. Go to the grocery store. Great beginnings to new ideas start there.

Anybody else have some ideas?

[Electric_Dreams]

I'm single because I'm extremely divergent, non-conformist and I don't play the game. I be totally myself, focus on my work, my passions, my ambitions, don't really pay much attention to trying to build close relationships with people.. so I seem aloof and stand-offish apparently. I know all these things. I have too many friends as it happens, so many that I can't stay in touch with them all properly, but not many close friends and mostly it's through my work or y'know younguns who look up to me and consider me an inspiration, people like me, but no one loves me.

So I know why I'm single. People don't want the real me, it's not appealing to girls that I'm just focussing on myself, my ambitions, looking after myself, and yeah sometimes I talk to them a bit but I don't go out of my way to find a partner. I would like one, but don't really make much effort to do so.. have done in the past, and that brings me back to the start - divergent, non-conformist, don't play. The last bit is the most significant. It gets kinda' manipulative, selfish, cruel, borderline abusive, even just casual dating. It's ugly man, so I step back.

[sugarchateau]

As long as you like yourself and enjoy your own company, life is good <3 lol

[Unit1]

And here is what single AF men do on valentines day ;)

[sugarchateau]

Hahahaha I love this so much

[Unit1]

☺ you are welcome, kind lady :)

[Unit1]

Also this 😀

[Cynicaldreamer]

Good for you for being the positives instead of complaining about being single on Valentine's day! I wish more singles would do that.

Vday is just a way for stores and big corporations to make money off people. Guys feel forced to get their girlfriend/wife something or else they get chewed out, or no sex for them!
And it's hard finding something that's not cliche or done to death other than going out to eat, buying overpriced flowers, or stuffed animals and chocolates that are double their regular price.
If you care about someone, why do you need one specifici day of the year to do so?

I don't even celebrate vday, even when I was in a relationship. I celebrate SAD instead (singles awareness day). I treat myself to a nice meal, buy myself something nice- a new outfit, new workout gear, even buy myself flowers! Spend time with my friends, and best of all- hit all the stores the day after vday for 50 percent off candy!

Happy singles day to all you lovely, single folks~

[DakotaNorth]

I am so hurt. I love Michael.
He acts approachable but yesterday I messaged him. What can we do for Valentine's Day?
No reply.
Today I ask, how about a date on Friday? It would be our very first.
No reply.
I'm discouraged.
I don't know if his avoidance is from autism or he's actually not interested.
I didn't know at first that he had autism, but I didn't care.
Now I'm just sad.

[sugarchateau]

You could turn this into poetry

[emmily2396]

How about not care about the days society tried to give a specific meaning to? Why should you show your love to someone more on this day than in any other day? If you love someone show them everyday. If you don't have someone why would it matter more on Valentine's day?

[JimboGB]

Why not take any excuse possible to celebrate your love? Why does it being a society conspect bother you so much? If you love them, each and everyday but your not going to go further and beyond each day (it's impossible) so again what's the problem?

[Guy13]

There has got to be someone for yuo as you are super creative individual.

[CoffeeWC]

I've been single all my life and my relationship status never was of any significance to me.

[sugarchateau]

Thank you for sharing

[JudgmentDay]

"7. Burn sage. Start a bonfire of old valentines, old gifts, old letters.

Destroy something that is easy to clean up without hurting others or yourself."

Why not roast some marshmallows while burning stuff?

[sugarchateau]

I feel like that is a super cute idea! I wanna do it now <3

[Unit1]

check out my opinion on this one judgmentday ;)

[SkipStop]

I like these ideas even though I don't care about holidays. Do all your suggestions have to be "Romantic"? I would rather do it in a way as if I just made a huge accomplishment in my life. Celebrate my progress.

[sugarchateau]

You do whatever you want with what works for you <3 I like the idea of celebrating your progress <3

[lost_girl2000]

I'm just going to eat different kind of chocolates. Valentine's Day is the only time of the year that I allow myself to "overdo" it with chocolates.

[sugarchateau]

I would've thought Halloween was the day to do that, but now that I think about it... Valentines day makes sense for that too. <3 i bet you get lots of chocolate gifts

[lost_girl2000]

I get a lot of chocolate gifts to myself. No one has ever given me anything on Valentine's Day.

[sugarchateau]

I would make you a chocolate cake <3

[lightbulb27]

why not go out and dance? Good list. wouldn't it be more fun to be with others? why not a singles fun night out?

[sugarchateau]

A lot of girls in my town do that every other night x) but good idea for those who dont!

[Spawnface]

You are absolutely adorable. I want to hug you so bad lol

[sugarchateau]

Awe, you are incredibly sweet! <3

[Spawnface]

Not as sweet as you!

[Nik1hil]

Hey Girl..
What if I told you I wanna be in your friendzone 😂😏

[sugarchateau]

I think that is really cute <3

[Nik1hil]

Haha..
Okay..
Let's freeze me in that cold. Lifeless friendzone of your since you lack friends

[Pejtu]

buy yourself a pack of ice cream during eating this bag complaing to ur friends how single u are and u are sick of that , how great of a girl u are etc

well meaby guys dont wanna be around you because of 2 things
1 your looks
2 your personality

there is no other reason :)

[monkeynutts]

Some sentimental time with the family pet.

[sugarchateau]

Precious!!! Awe <3 <3

[Danny_dan92]

Real shit... that cake with the jelly beans looks dense and delicious 🤤

[sugarchateau]

you have good taste :P have you ever tried the Harry Potter bag of jelly beans with those crazy flavors?

[Danny_dan92]

Uhhh hell yah I have 😂 who hasn’t?

[Grayout]

Just gonna skate around, practice guitar, and drink till I pass out

[sugarchateau]

Sounds like a really good time

[Tilin29]

Point 7 is probably a bit hard for me to do since I haven't received anything for Valentine's day so far...

[sugarchateau]

Got any homework assignments that you want to destroy?

[Tilin29]

All assignments are mostly virtual lmao... especially since most are coding or computer based assignments.

[sugarchateau]

Have any old shoes you don't mind destroying?

[Tilin29]

Rather give them away to people in need

[sugarchateau]

I hope you don't give away shoes with holes in them lolol

[Tilin29]

Don't have shoes with holes lol... Mostly because I give them away before they come to that point. Like I give them away once they are bent and start looking weird to me.
But to a person that doesn't have the financial stability to buy them, I am happy to give to and they'll appreciate it more than I do.

[sugarchateau]

I rarely buy myself shoes so I get to the point where I have holes in mine. Not fun. lol

[Tilin29]

Ah rip... I have to due to social pressure to get new shoes each season (at least 2-4 pairs)

[sugarchateau]

Dang!! Does that suck or do you enjoy it?

[Tilin29]

I mean it's a waste of money but I surely love new Nikes on my feet

[sugarchateau]

Is it a waste or is it worth it? Cause if you love your nikes, it sounds like it wasn't a waste lolol

[Tilin29]

It's a waste of money. I don't need new nikes, I just want them lol...

[hindril]

Great ideas. If you really want, and like, some nice scented candles or regular while sitting in the hot tub (could be regular tub with hot water, right?

You don't have to be single. I am too and we can correct that! lol.

[leuchan]

These are pretty good ideas. Love the one with the letter and the romantic walk 😍❤️

[sugarchateau]

<3 <3 I hope you write yourself a nice long lover letter and take yourself on a romantic walk lol

[Gopnik]

i would really like to skate a pool, sadly i don't have one.
looks like i'm not having a date today aswell so i feel like an absolute tumor

[sugarchateau]

I'd invite you to come join me!

[Gopnik]

haha, sadly i don't have an extra 1500 euros laying around for the airline costs else i'd do it cuz 1 skateboarding and 2 america is great.

[sugarchateau]

Awe <3 Hm, I guess if you're stuck in your area you can check out abandoned homes with drained pools?

[Gopnik]

there's not a lot of abandoned homes around, let alone ones with pools.
there's a few abandoned buildings i've been to, like yesterday at 23:20 me and 4 friends decided it'd be a good idea to break into an old abandoned school with running power and an alarm, we were all stoned as hell and i had to kick in the cellar door, but we got in and chilled in the hallway since that's the only place where there was no sensor.

[sugarchateau]

hahaha that sounds like fun and that's really good that you knew where the sensor was and where to stay safe hahaha bummer on not being able to find abandoned homes with empty pools. We have a ton around here. Do you enjoy rock climbing?

[Gopnik]

yeah, i've done it but not with real rocks, but rather inside but yeah stuff like that i do enjoy.
i rooftop a lot, i made an edit on my IG of how we got onto a big mall that's being built rn, cuz i filmed the whole thing but the quality is shit but it's a beginning 😂

[sugarchateau]

I love going on rooftops! That's wild that you went on a mall that was being built, i'm not familiar with construction so I wouldn't feel too ready to explore something like that on a whim. Link me your instagram, I wanna see!

[Gopnik]

https://www.instagram.com/romano_sk/ i turned off private account so you could see, i usually have it on.

[sugarchateau]

I'm following you now! lmaooo that looks really cool

[Gopnik]

i'm also very familiar with construction so i'm very comfortable climbing these kinds of things, i'm an electrician and i install solar panels as my internship soon to be dayjob as my course will allow that.
so it's not uncommon for me to get on roofs.

[Gopnik]

it's a major city in the southern of the netherlands the video turned out rather shite but the view was amazing as you could probably see in the video.

[sugarchateau]

I've been a server and a student for most of my life. I paint, garden, sing, dance, hike/rockclimb, swim and skate on my own time. lolol I'm trying to learn more about doing my own car upgrades, home installations, and i'd loveeee if I could do a little 'survivor mode' home building out in the wild. But for the most part, i'm just that girl who jumps on the back of the motorcycle instead of driving it. x)

[Gopnik]

i usually fuck around with my scooter trying to get it above the legal speed limit that it's allowed to go xD, i want to go camping with friends in the summer since seems quite cool just with tents and a fire n some beers, i have been skateboarding for 3 years and onwards not that i'm anything special in it but i can't say that i'm bad either.

[Gopnik]

sadly there's not a lot of girl skaters around here, in 3 years i've only seen like 1 which is a bummer tbh.

[sugarchateau]

Oh camping is sooo fun! I used to go camping with my horse when i had him. :,) Would ride him bare back through rivers and in the lake, (not legal in most lakes). I miss that. Are you any good at playing pool? I love playing pool with a shot of whiskey lmao.

[Gopnik]

i'm not good at it but i can play it yeah.

[NYCQuestions1976]

The only person in history who properly celebrated Valentine's Day was Al Capone.

[Exterminatore]

Girls are so funny. One day you’ll look back and miss being single. Enjoy it while you have the chance.

[tartaarsaus]

I'll enjoy my entire day studying. 9 hours of lectures, can't wait! 🙄

[sugarchateau]

yikkesss 9 hours of lectures? i'm so sorry x)