Should I do a boudoir photoshoot as a gift for my fiancé on Valentine’s Day?

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If so please comment some photo poses and lingerie ideas. I would love that so much

CallMeDave · Accepted Answer

Unless you are really sure he won't mind whoever the photographer is taking those photos and probably keeping them at least for a while and showing them to other people, I think you are taking a risk doing that.

Some guys wouldn't care about the photographer and would love the photos, but some guys would be pretty upset about you doing that and letting other people see you that way and it could have a negative effect on your relationship for a long time. If you are not sure which group he is in, I think you're taking a big risk if you do it.

Do you know how he'd feel if you went to a nude beach or went out in public dressed provocatively? If he wouldn't mind that, then you're probably good. If he wouldn't like that then my opinion is that you shouldn't do it.

curioussheikh · Accepted Answer

I think that would be very romantic and considerate of you towards your fiance, and I believe he would really appreciate that. I hope he has something great planned for you as well. I have a lot of ideas as to what you could do but give me an hour to two and I will collect some great pictures for you from Google and share them here, I hope you like them and I wonder if your fiance would like them as well

DeeDeeDeVour · Accepted Answer

I did that several times for my husband when he was still my boyfriend. He said he enjoyed every pic, slideshow & video very much.

I got inspired by the impressive work of remarkable painter Omar Ortiz and duplicated some of his models' poses. http://www.omarortiz.com.mx/obras/en/omar-ortiz-work/ It's not necessary to fully undress. Pick out your favorite provocative/seductive lingerie and take a few shots of your favorite liquor.

Justacatlady · Accepted Answer

Super sexy idea! I really like the ones where your completely naked but have a light almost see through sheet covering the important bits. I also really like the silhouette ones

Goodwifie · Answer

I had a shoot done two years ago.
It was more for me than my husband and I'm finding that more women are doing it for themselves rather than for their partners.
Turning 40, being a mother of three, suffering from chronic illness and having body image issues.
My husband loved the photos but I think I love them more. ❤.
Wear something that makes feel sexy or wear nothing at all.

razelove · Answer

So if you're looking for lingerie that looks good, really sexy, but not necessarily comfortable, go to a sex store, most of their stock is sexy outfits rather than dildos and the like... obviously there are typically not returns lol

Pick out 2 or 3 outfits that you really like, pay a professional photographer to take the pictures, have a contract where they belong to you, and you alone, just tell your husband it was a flamboyantly gay guy regardless of man or woman. He might want to get some pictures taken for you, you never know.

aicarg · Answer

I wouldn't, and reason as to why is because he's your boyfriend, not fiancé or husband. Not to be sour but if things do go sour, the idea that he has provocative pics of you just dosen't seem to settle well in my opinion. Plus, where would he keep or display such pics, wouldn't you feel awkward if his friends or family members saw them?

JackSmy · Answer

I would say no, for me, and the one I love, wanting to make those photos together, using Monochrome film, and then developing, the film, and selecting the images to print, together, in the dark room, watching her beauty just develop on the paper, old fashioned, but something we share, together!!

AbsoluteCutie · Answer

I always thought doing one of those would be so much fun. I wanted to do one and give the album to my husband on our wedding day. He didn’t want me to for fear someone else might see them 😂 and he didn’t feel comfortable with a photographer seeing me that way. So... I didn’t get to do one. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Ianto · Answer

Remember he is going to wonder who took the photos!

chriscdi · Answer

why not make like a calander of yourself or someshit, and give him that lol

RebeccaSJ · Answer

I did one for my sweet hubby shortly before we married, and he loved it. I had a great time doing it.

I started with sexy lingerie, eventually did a few topless, then finally took the panties off too and went fully nude.

You just hve to relax. Find some comfortable poses. Stretched out on a bed is usually good. Find poses that work for you. Relax and have fun.

PrincessDuckie · Answer

Absolutely! He will love it and you can keep it forever to help remember how beautiful you are ^_^

Jjpayne · Answer

Yes, of course! I'd find out what he likes the best as secretly as you can and go with that

muffeater · Answer

Whatever is favourite colour is find the smallest sexiest lingerie you can with feather fans covering all important bitsand slowly but surely get raunchy here and raunchy out with each different shot up to where you're comfortable

bangyourhead · Answer

Totally. If you think you have a place you want to hang it in your home.

Dolemite510 · Answer

Do something dirty with him u normally don’t, giving him pictures of u in lingerie is something that omen are told by their boring friends to do to spice things up 🤣

beebella · Answer

Personally, I find the idea a little corny. But if you think he'd like it, then go ahead.

bananathunder · Answer

of course! Sounds like an awesome gift in my opinion

Guanfei · Answer

He would like that. But I have no idea how to do that

lucas262 · Answer

if I was him i would love sexy pics of my girl, i won't watch porn so having Somthing of her would be great when she isn't there.

Surely · Answer

If you use a male photographer, make sure your fiance isn't the jealous type. Especially if you are modeling really revealing things.

Swimmerdude2013 · Answer

Yes definitely do it! Do you have any lingerie you can wear? If not would you like suggestions

manmeat · Answer

of course and get lots of kinky toys and underware for later :D if brave enough get photos of u using the toys for him :D

TheAteam1978 · Answer

I'd love it more then you but that being said I think it is sexy and shows a lot of thought

NightOwl8801 · Answer

Go for it , surprises are always nice

DanOh2018 · Answer

Interesting idea, I like it.

arizonaguy95 · Answer

This would be a great idea very sexy 😍😍

holidaze · Answer

Yes! But post them here also!! :)

pigoat · Answer

Only if you a are pretty

JermalTheBlackDog · Answer

Whatever you like. You do it

soleil2666 · Answer

Walk it in front of him, why photos?

COMMODOREII · Answer

Coming out of a pond of water nude? 😗

smahala1991 · Answer

go for it

Nahid1707 · Answer

Update, Will you end up doing it?

Anonymous · Answer

Stuff had jerk off too?

Iron_Man · Answer

No nudes though

JennieF · Answer

Yeah.

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