What's it mean when she wants me to come over and meet her best friend?

[sandwichmeister]

M21, met this F20 about 3 weeks ago. We had two 1 on 1 dates so far, and the second one she came and slept over my house. We already kissed/hugged etc. We were supposed to have a third one yesterday that was going to be dinner then I stay over her house but she has a health problem and got super sick out of the blue so we canceled the third date.

She's fine now so I tried rescheduling to either today or tomorrow and tomorrow she's busy but on tuesdays she has a tradition where her and her best friend always hang out but she invited me and said I'm more than welcome to come over and hang out with them tonight.

So what's this mean, should I go? Am I being friendzoned? I bought her flowers yesterday for the date since it was the day before Valentine's day, and since it never happened and I still have the flowers should I bring them tonight?

[SueShe]

The way I see it is that she is perhaps afraid that this 3rd date may not at all develop as she had it in mind.

Usually, guys are the ones that tend to pressure the girl to get intimate, latest by the 3rd date and she has no plans for it to happen. As a safety precaution, she is asking her friend to tag along but gives you the impression that you may tag along. It is simply a security issue because she does not know you well enough yet.

Of course that you can bring your flowers along. This is a nice gesture and you should bring them over. It is not because she has a "chaperon" with her that you should not try to impress her with flowers.

Now, as to know whether you are friendzoned, there is a chance but again, it could just be for her own protection that she has asked her friend to tag along.

Good luck with your meeting tonight.

[sandwichmeister]

Thank you but she already slept over my house the last time alone just her and I so I'm not sure why she would now bring a friend as a safety precaution?

[SueShe]

Sleeping over is one thing but sleeping with someone else is a different one.

[Anonymous]

It is called "playing it safe." She is probably looking for a second opinion, which is very wise.

[Guy13]

You passed first Test and now it is time for second dent, scratches and "scrubs" look over from her Bestie. Watch out when they start engaging you and try the Flirt. You start answering the friend then with eyes to your Woman and then finish with the friend. they WILL BE looking for that. Wait till they get you to the Club or Pub or Dart board. You know that radio announcement... keep this in your mind for LIFE now...

"This is a Test of the Emergency Broadcasting System... in case of Emergency agencies within your area will be notified... This is only a Test !!!" It never ends though...

[Iron_Man]

Ask her

[Anonymous]

This is really weird