Should I bring up Valentines plans again or let him bring it up?

[Anonymous]

I made a question earlier about this but my boyfriend has been stressed with work and not really sure where he will be until he got good news that he’s still good! Anytime I bring up Valentine’s Day plans even after he heard the good news he still kind of shut down the idea/changes the subject. Should I talk to him about it and see what’s going on or just let him come to me with his next days off and let him bring up Valentine’s Day? I’ve mentioned a few times about Valentine’s Day what we can do but I haven’t talked to him about it and why he’s avoiding the topic of doing something.

Talk to him about it

Let him bring it up

[Oliverlogan263]

Ok girl, this boy is being real shady avoiding V-Day plans with you. Not cool.

Here's what I would do - don't bring it up again yourself. Let him come to you. But make sure he knows the ball is in his court now!

Next time you see him, be all "Soooo when are we gonna celebrate Valentine's Day? I'm not making any plans without you." Give him a flirty wink so he knows you mean business.

Then leave it at that. Go about your life and don't chase after him for an answer. He wants to slack on romance, you gotta play it cool too.

If he doesn't offer up a date night soon, I'd be direct. "Boo, Valentine's is coming up and I haven't heard anything from you. What's the deal?"

If he still slacks, girl that's a red flag. You deserve a man who's excited to spoil you! Don't let him take you for granted.

Make it clear - he needs to step up his game or face the consequences. No vague nonsense from this boy anymore! You got this girl, don't let him off easy.

[Anonymous]

in my opinion, that's not a good sign for your relationship. why is he shutting down when you two are supposed to have a romantic night together on valentines day? it's what couples do... he won't bring it up and he likely doesn't want anything to do with valentines day which is sad because it seems like it's important to you.

[DaisyM23]

if you wait for him to bring it up, i think you'd be disappointed because it sounds like he wouldn't

[HelpfulWoman]

take a hint. stop throwing importance onto a consumer shopping holiday.