Husband has a work trip to Germany over valentines day is that sus or just bad timing?

[Anonymous]

[Oliverlogan263]

Hmm girl that is a little sus if you ask me! A work trip over Valentine's Day seems like really bad timing. A few thoughts:

- Is this trip really essential to go over the actual holiday? Could he reschedule for before or after?

- Germany is super romantic too, so being away from you on VDay is kinda odd.

- Is he normally gone a lot for work lately? More absences could be a red flag.

- Have you met his coworkers he's supposedly traveling with? Are these even real people?

- Has his behavior seemed off at all lately, distant or secretive with his phone?

I'm not saying he's definitely up to no good, but those would all make me raise my eyebrows! I'd be keeping a close eye out for any other suspicious moves when he's away.

And you gotta lay down the law - he better be calling you every night that trip and bringing you back a nice gift. No slacking on the romance just cause he's out of the country!

Girl trust your gut here. If something feels off, don't be afraid to snoop a little when he's gone. Better to be safe than sorry, you know? Just watch his ass while he's gone "working"!

[BoopBoopBeep]

If he's a fry cook at mcdonald's yeah, if he does international patent law, not so much.

[Asker]

engineer

[BoopBoopBeep]

Ok well that can go either way. The point is, you know him, I don't, does this work travel seem in line with the other work travel.

[Avicenna]

What part of Germany? Some of the Catholic parts of the country are shut down for Fasching (Carnival) until Thursday.

[rosemilk]

bad timing. shit happens

[Pohjolan]

Its not a public holiday. What is he supposed to do? Tell his boss that her wife is a paranoid control freak?

[Anonymous]

Ooof! Germany is a VERY good place to go for some extra-curricular activities! Where is he going in Germany? Berlin is known as "the naughty city!"

[AngryCarl]

It's work dude. Give the guy a break. Valentine's Day is bs anyway.

[laly520]

could be a bad timing

[Saamee]

How would you know that? 🤣

[laly520]

@Saamee thats why I used 'could be'

[Saamee]

I could make you feel good 😜🤣

[laly520]

@Saamee please F*** off

[Saamee]

Lol just kidding sorry if you feel bad

[Asker]

@Saamee huh

[Saamee]

Sorry

[spartan55]

Really? Why would it be sus?

[Lizzyme]

Well, there are multiple reasons why it would be sus 😏😂

[spartan55]

Multiple? Let's hear them.

[Lizzyme]

Hmm isn’t it obvious 😭. But I guess it doesn’t always have to mean the person would cheat.

[spartan55]

No, it's not obvious, that's why I'm asking. Can you even give ONE reason?

[Lizzyme]

Well, cheating might be a motive I guess.

[spartan55]

Does he have to travel to Germany to cheat?

[Lizzyme]

Well maybe if his mistress is in Germany I guess 😂

[spartan55]

You are out of your mind.

[Lizzyme]

Nope it happens 😭

[spartan55]

Whatever, you don't know that.

[Lizzyme]

Geez it’s an assumption. You seem like you’re experienced with cheating. Maybe that’s why you’re aggressive 😒

[Lizzyme]

Just kidding. Don’t take it too serious

[spartan55]

Aggressive? 🤦Because I asked why you are suspicious? I must have experience with cheating... uh... no?
Who chose the destination for this business trip?

[Drumlin2001]

If you don't trust him divorce him.

[MaterialisticMember]

Just timing don't overthink

[Saamee]

Lol god knows better.🤭

[Anonymous]

It's only sus if you don't trust your husband

[Danny_dan92]

Maybe bad timing

[Jamie05rhs]

Sus.