Do you think it’s wrong that I didn’t give my coworker a Valentine’s gift because of how she treated me?

[Anonymous]

My coworker is so rude. She criticized me, she is rude when I don’t get social cures right away, doesn’t respect me and she dislikes me (because I’m autistic). She yelled at me for making mistakes, picked on me and said if she was a boss she would never hire someone like me and I’m not as special as I think. She also said nobody likes or has to like me. She never speaks to me, she only talks to the other coworkers and gets along with them so well. She once said something unforgivable to me and she insulted my deceased father and that was it for me. Nobody insults my dead father and gets away with it. So I decided NOT to give her a Valentine. I gave out Valentine’s Day gifts to the other two coworkers accept her. What? She didn’t deserve it, but my two coworkers said I should be ashamed of myself and should have given her one and I am going to break her heart. She didn’t seem to care. She don’t like me. I only have out gifts for those who I interact with and respects me. She doesn’t get a Valentine.

[Anonymous]

It's understandable that you chose not to give a Valentine's gift to your coworker given the circumstances and how she has treated you. You have the right to set boundaries and prioritize giving gifts to those who treat you with respect. It's important to prioritize your own well-being in such situations.

[Summeroflove]

Is this Kindergarten? Yes she deserves it. She isn’t entitled to anything from you and she needs to be fired. It’s not Kindergarten where if you bring something for one person, you must bring it to the whole class.

[Paris13]

I do Not Blame you. However, If You Didn't Give her One---I Hope You Were Discreet with Giving To The Others at Work. Just Ethicalxxoo

[Paris13]

Thanks, Gag. xxoo

[Truthatanycost]

You should pray for her because anyone acting in that way has no peace, joy or life in them.

[Fireguy17]

good for you.
I support your decision, bad behavior towards anyone should not be rewarded just because others received something thoughtful.

[Anonymous]

You didn't do anything wrong.

[Asker]

That’s what I thought. She treated me like shit, I’m not getting her one and I really don’t give a rats ass if she is butthurt

[Opinion Owner]

Good for you! Also, for next time make a mental note to not get anything for the coworkers who were defending her.

[BoopBoopBeep]

Yeah I second that. F the first lady, and F your other coworkers for defending her, especially if they know how she's treated you.

[Anonymous]

No, because she's not your girlfriend.