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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)     When: More than a year ago
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Is that a bad thing? Ha..My class was debating about it with our guy teacher. He says girls should ask guys cause guys will get scared, nervous, etc. But uh...ain't it supposed to be their job?? Cause if girls do it then the guys will think you are desperate. And it ain't easy for us to ask either. So uh.... who is supposed to ask who? And is it a bad thing if girls ask guys?

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Aedak (Age:18 to 24)      When: 8 months ago
I wish more girls would approach me because I've always been more on the shy side as it is. Why should it always be our job to do the hard part?
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sereniyt123 You are rite girls should be brave to and ask put a guy. oh I am a girl by the way - 4 months ago

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Ghidorah (Age:25 to 29)      When: More than a year ago
A girl can ask the guy out. It's up to you to decide whether or not to. There is nothing wrong with it.
Some girls refuse to do it for whatever reason. But they still need to give the guy noticeable hints. The guy wants to minimize his chances of rejection. Remember, it takes two to tango.
Also, don't mislead the guy. Don't do anything that would give him the wrong impression.
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leiti
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leiti (Age:Under 18)      When: More than a year ago
That's the only thing I don't like about girls. They make everything so complicated, and make big deal out of non-existing problems. If you like him just ask.. It's that simple.
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PureFury (Age:18 to 24)      When: More than a year ago
I've never thought a girl would have to be desperate to ask out a guy. It just means they like him. But it should be the guy who asks the girl out. I know too many guys who have broken up with girlfriends because the girlfriends didn't think they were manly enough. So for ladies, I'd suggest that if you really like a guy but think he's too shy to ask you out, then go up to him and let him know that you like him, and let him ask you out.
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thisgirl10 But what if you both know you like each other (and both of you told the other) but he didn't ask you out yet? - 7 months ago
 

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LilMiss
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LilMiss (Age:18 to 24)      When: 6 months ago
Any kind of relationship is a 50/50 split. Nothing is anybody's "job". If a guy asks a girl out, that means he likes her a lot. So if a girl likes a guy a lot, she should just ask him out. I've asked guys out before and they liked the fact that I made life that much easier by telling them how I felt, rather than waiting for them. Hope this helps.
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Cotton-Candy-Summer
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Cotton-Candy-Summer (Age:25 to 29)      When: More than a year ago
It really bothers me when I guy doesn't have enough confidence to ask a girl out. If you flirt with them and create a comfortable atmosphere between the two of you and he still can't ask you out, that's pretty sad. Plus, if the guy does the asking, you know that he's really interested in you.
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Aedak It may have nothing to do with confidence. For all you know, he could just be missing the signals. - 8 months ago

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rocket (Age:18 to 24)      When: More than a year ago
I want the guy to ask me so I know he's interested. Plus, I wouldn't like any guy that wouldn't approach me.
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sodar (Age:18 to 24)      When: More than a year ago
I usually do the asking because I don't like waiting around for the guy to make an excuse to start a conversation or just grow a pair and ask me out :)
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