Well I'm a very shy person, people say that I'm very beautiful but I've never had a boyfriend before and I don't know if it's because I'm too shy and quiet I need you to tell me what you think?
I guess it all depends on the guys nature himself. If he's quite, reserved or shy, he tends to like other shy people. Outgoing guys tend to like outgoing girls. Shy girls drive me crazy. I like the mystery in a shy girl. The only problem is since both are most likely shy and quiet, its hard to find a match.
I love quiet girls. I'm kinda in the same situation as u. I'm quiet And I've never had a girlfriend. There were times where I was so close to having one but it just didn't work out so just know that there ARE possibilities out there. I know its hard to let someone know that you like them, especially if ur scared of rejection, but you have to show it somehow. Most guys, especially if they are also scared of rejection, need to see that you might be interested before they ask
Thank you very much for your advice :) - 15 days ago
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I love shy girls to death personally, maybe the right boys aren't around maybe you need to be else where for the right kind of guy to go after you. Or perhaps they just assume since you're shy and beautiful that you already have a boyfriend.
/hug, sorry there are good guys out there that love shy girls though, don't go getting unshy, there aren't a lot of shy people out there imo and I love shy people =) - 15 days ago
I don't like shy quiet girls--I LOVE them! I wish more girls could just be more reserved and modest like that. Loud-moth, know-it-all, ego manics are usually characteristics of a guy. And still, a guy shouldn't be like that anyway. Anyhow, I think it's perfectly fine to be shy and not be all outgoing and fake your confidence(it's big turn off). But the key is that you MUST be able to talk when people are talking to you. Especially on those 1on1 talk with the guy, you should be able to show him that interested in him and the things he have to say. Once you got that down, it's much more likely that he'll ask you out. Oh and the other thing for you shy girls is that you gotta learn how to flirt with a guy without saying a word. Try to do an eye contact with him for about 1-2 second. Don't hold eye contact any longer because you'll come across as something else other than shy. Right after the 1-2 of contact, look down slightly and smile a bit then look away. When you look away, he'll most likely will still be looking at you. So smile a bit more and "dart" your eyes. While you are looking down still, look left and right like you are searching for an answer(remember to keep smiling a bit). Do this a few times with the guy you like, and he WILL get the idea.
I am in the exact same situation as you. I am extremely shy and have never had a boyfriend; but in the past three weeks, 7 guys have told my friend that they either think I am "hot" or that they like me. It sounds like we don't need help with attracting guys, but that we do need help with the actual talking part. I think it's just a matter of getting up enough courage to say something. Anything. I think it's true that we haven't had boyfriends because we are too shy, but it's not that guys are repelled by that, it's just that we can't get close enough to anyone. Good luck with your troubles, and just remember that there's someone going through the same thing as you. We just need to learn to speak up!
You know, what you said to her was right on and I agree with you because I'm pretty much in the exact same situation as you guys.So your answer was right on and I think I'll take your advice, too. - 6 months ago
I totally agree with ya'll. I'm shy, too. I'm trying to come out a little more tho. I've never had a boyfriend before but now I do, and he makes it a little easier to not be so shy and quiet all the time. I'm getting there. Good advice, btw. - 3 months ago
What is your favorite outfit for a night out with friends?
Hanging out with friends I would wear cami or baby doll tank, light washed destroyed jeans, leather flip flops,(all A&F, HCO or Aero) and a Tiffany's neckless or cucko shell neckless.I would also wear one of my favorite perfumes. Guess by Marciano, Chanel Coco, D&G light blue or Abercromie 8. :)
How do you style your hair and do your make-up?
I would probably wear it in a relaxed pony tail or long beachy waves with a hawaiian flower pin behind me ear. (I like the comfy beach look). As for makeup I would just wear a light bronzer (nothing that wld clog pores) or a natural looking blush and a light pink lip gloss. (VS Beauty Rush has my favorite flavors!) All in all I like looking casual, pretty, and classy. :D
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