Heavier women

Honey, you have nothing to be worried about. Unfortunately todays society if messed up on "social programming" but you do not appear to be as you say a "fat" girl. You work out, that alone is sexy and attractive because it means that you want to take care of your body. The second part of your question proves it even more, if someone is concerned about their health enough and go through that, its the person that lies within.

If a guy in front of you doesn't accept it than move on because you will find someone that will see what you have done and do for yourself.

Little secret about most guys, if you feel upset about some weight or "Flab" as you put it, the guy senses it and feels it as well.

BUT! if you just love/accept who you are, I mean really just accept you for you, work hard to be the best person you can for you first, then dress the way you like, act the way you like and find a guy that likes you, when you walk into the room and feel sexy inside, and walk sexy, than you look 10 times more sexy to a man than some $10 hoe that is 5'4" blonde and blue off the cover of .whatever magazine.

This is from a 30 something guy, 124 pounds 5'6"