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Girls, what do you do if some girl called your boyfriend cutie, sexy, babe?

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Anonymous User (Age:25 to 29)     When: 2 months ago
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What do you do? Just ignore it? Get mad at the girl and talk to her? Get mad at your man for continuing talking with that girl (a friend you don't know or some girl you just met at a party/online, etc) .

I really get mad at the both of them personally. But I'm more at the girl but I still have to put blame on my boyfriend for still talking to the girl (if they just met) or if their friends and she can call him babe, sexy, cutie, etc.


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Anonymous User      When: A month ago
don't take it out on the guy, that's not fair to him. he would probably take it as a compliment, and if he likes her in a friendly way, then he'll continue to talk with her, but he already has a girlfriend. why would he he do anything with her when he's got you; plus, he didn't initiate it! It might make him angry that you would be mad at him because of a compliment from someone.
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Purfectkitty08
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Purfectkitty08      When: A month ago
What you should do is calmly talk to your boyfriend about her.Tell him your not making accusations and be careful that you don't or all it will do is make him defensive and cause a fight.Tell him that it bothers you when this girl calls him those names and you would like to know why she calls him those name?.
Relationships need communication but you have to be careful how you go about this discussion or it will turn into accusations and lead to huge fight which will not solve anything.

Don't get mad,it doesn't solve anything.Most likely the girl is just innocently flirtatious type that doesn't realize she is going over the line.
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i_be_grey_c      When: A month ago
Talk to both of them. Tell your boyfriend you don't feel too comfortable with her doing that and tell her you don't like her calling things only you should call him. Good luck!
-- Gracie
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Anonymous User      When: A month ago
I wouldn't be thrilled, but I trust my boyfriend. If the girl didn't know yet that he had a girlfriend I'm more forgiving about the situation. It happens. If she was fully aware and was trying to flirt with my boyfriend I would be annoyed. More so because I don't have much respect for women who try to steal and seduce a man who is already in a committed relationship. But I wouldn't go so far as to have a talk with her unless it was a continuous thing, like every time we met up with her she'd be all over him. I wouldn't blame my boyfriend though. I expect other girls will find him attractive. I do, so why wouldn't others? I know we love each other and are devoted to each other, so I don't worry about him reciprocating any advances. Except I wouldn't hid my feelings from him and I would let him know if I was feeling uncomfortable with a situation and we'd talk about it.
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Coura      When: A month ago
There is nothing wrong with another girl calling my boyfriend cut or babe. As long as you trust your boyfriend that he will not cheat on you, don;t worry about it. Feel proud that other girls find him attractive, but he is with you. Don't get mad at other girls. If it really bother you talk to him about it.
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Anonymous User      When: 2 months ago
I never understood why girls always get more mad at the other girl. if anything you should be more mad at your boyfriend seeing as he's in a relationship with you and is supposed to have loyalty to you. The other girl could give a sh*t less about you, your man is the one who is supposed to care. Now if she kept trying him then that's when you confront her but he is the one who should handle the situation and let her know he has a gf. He is the one who should let her know what is appropriate since he is the one she talks to.
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moonlightromance      When: 2 months ago
i would be a little jealous
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confuser      When: 2 months ago
if your boyfriend really loves you and you really know that, you will know that he won't do what hurts you so ignore her don't dout her .
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Question Asker So you think I should just not mention it to my bf? I want to say something but I feel like I sound like an insecure girlfriend (again, he's a handsome guy. A lot of women like him. I've gotten mad whenever a girl says something to him and blamed him and her). I used to not care when I didn't take him seriously... lol I wish I didn't anymore so I wouldn't be so mean and annoying to him.

I'm considering of treating it like I don't care. But I'm just scared he'll continue talking to these random girls. - 2 months ago
Answerer Your scared cos you`re jelouse and that's very normal when you fall in love it just happens , in your case talk to him about it its the only way to eliminate your fears and douts ,tell him how you feel with all the girls calling him cutie he will understand you and you will find out how he feels about it and that's the important part here.make sure it doesn't end in a bad way .i apologize for my first answer wich says just ignore it but,its really annoying to you and you re gonna think of it alot. - 2 months ago

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meplusabeemer      When: 2 months ago
If the guy and girl are friends then it should be strictly platonic and not flirty. She is openly flirting with him by call him "sexy, babe etc." If I was you, I would be mad and concerned as well. I would not talk to the girl but to your boyfriend. I think he is entitled to have female friends but he needs to learn where to draw the line. I think you need to consider telling him that you don't mind him having female friends. However, it concerns you when she starts flirting and there might be room for temptation. In this approach, you're telling him your concerns and giving him the opportunity to take control of the issue. If he doesn't talk to this girl and remind her that he has a girlfriend then I think he will need to make a choice. Either cease contact with her to save his relationship with you or you walk away. If he loves, cares and respects you then the remedy should be simple.
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