I seduced a married woman, now I feel guilty and paranoid?

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Long story short, she is my neighbor who has been giving me the signs since I moved in the place. She happens to workout at the same gym I go to and whenever her husband is not working out with her, she is all over me.

So today I decided to go f*ck it, YOLO!, because I was still drunk from last night's party and thought I could sober up by working out. She happened to workout today, and her clothes sent me a message of invitation. So I just looked her in the eyes...grabbed her waist...then I put my hands underneath her shirt and worked my way up. Next thing you know, were in bed.

Her husband knocked on my door an hour ago asking if I saw his wife working out at the gym. I started panicking lol, because she was still upstairs in my room taking a shower. He heard the shower running upstairs and asked me if I had company. I said "no, I just started the shower because I just got back from the gym, and can't you see that I'm sweating?"

He stupidly believed it. ughhhh! what do I do now?

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All in all, thank you for mentioning he might chop my body of HAHA. This guy looks like your typical HS math teacher. No lessons are learned from this, no karmas are going around. Not everybody is entitled to be married or in a relationship someday. She and I decided to stay like this while it last, and once its over, ill move on to the next one. Yes I'm a POS, a prick, you name it.

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For Christ sake is there a delete button? It's like Zimmerman found not guilty, people won't believe it!

I said I'm over being paranoid. She and I will continue to do this until who knows when. Leave me alone, cased closed.

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Anonymous
(30-35)

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Well, both of you f***ed up. And although, it wasn't a smart move on your part to take her to bed, she went willingly. Also, since she has been giving you the "come f*** me" signs then she isn't very faithful to her husband to begin with (well, duh).

I would suggest just telling her that you made a mistake by sleeping with her. Whether or not she decides to tell her husband about her mishap is really her problem. If he does find out then you're going to have to face him. Depending on how angry he is, he might just f*** you up OR he might just take most of his anger out on his wife. Either way, you screwed up pretty bad since you knew the woman was married.

I am just shaking my head at the woman since she obviously doesn't give a sh*t about marriage. What a pathetic thing to do, cheating on her husband, tsk tsk. And shame on you for not keeping it in your pants either.

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calialltheway1993 Follow
Yoda Age: 30 , mho 35%

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Ladies and gentlemen... This is from a movie scene.

If not, you f***ed up, but the cheating wife f***ed up more. I don't want to completely blame her because maybe her husband is a douche bag and cheats on her.

Well, maybe you should find another place and make sure your neighbor is gay and out of your league.

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- sexyasianboi26
  
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  just like I said below "Well I talked to her about it after her husband knocked on my door. She is sexually frustrated, she is 40 and has not had sex in 5 years due to her husband's impotence...
  
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harveykinkle Follow
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It's not your job to respect the marriage of someone not willing to respect it themselves! Keep up the fun for as long as she's down :)

People cheat all the time - they just don't talk about it.

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- Robotic
  
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  What? so anytime someone cheats and the other person knows it, then its ok?
  
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- ForeverYours39
  
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  that ain't right
  
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- sexyasianboi26
  
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  Yah we decided to keep up the fun while it lasts. I don't gotta worry about her husband, she's got him under a leash.
  
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- TeamNiceGuy
  
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  I can see where you're coming from but it doesn't make it right... There's people's emotions on the line here and her husband deserves to get a better woman than this slut. Asianboi here can have fun with his bimbo here while the husband can go out and find a new woman who isn't going to be some easy squeeze. There are also some morals that play into this and if you don't feel bad for helping cheat on someone than you've got some serious damage done. Respecting others is keeps you alive
  
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- harveykinkle
  
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  If the woman is going to cheat (or any spouse) she's going to cheat! It's not this guy's place to keep her in line. There's something wrong with her marriage and she's seeking it elsewhere... it's actually not uncommon at all.
  
  I know it would be nice if everyone was faithful to their spouse but in reality that's definitely not the case! For ever single man after me there's ~10 married men!
  
  The world should realize that sex isn't love. If they did the divorse rate would be lower!
  
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- Robotic
  
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  answer this for me. you can knowingly seduce a married person to cheat and you are completely guilt free?
  
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- harveykinkle
  
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  At the end of the day it was the married person who made the vows to stay faithful for an eternity, not the person who is doing the seducing. If the married person took their vows seriously they wouldn't cheat!
  
  Is it a questionable thing to seduce a married person? Absolutely!
  
  Thing is it happens all the time. The married person does have the choice not to cheat and at the end of the day they're the only party who will have to live with the potential consequences of that decision.
  
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- Robotic
  
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  and how would you feel if you saw some lady trying to seduce your bf/husband?
  
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- harveykinkle
  
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  the only one I could be mad at is him if he cheated on me. The world is full of temptation. He should avoid it though I'd love a "don't ask don't tell" marriage. I think that would actually be more realistic and long lasting.
  
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- Robotic
  
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  so you're not the jealous type?
  
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- harveykinkle
  
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  No. Realistically your spouse will likely cheat on you. I also believe that once the temptation is gone and the trill of it being forbidden you'd both be less likely to do it.
  
  If I truly loved someone I wouldn't want something so petty as a meaningless physical act to ruin it.
  
  I just understand that sex does not mean love...
  
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windyCitysFinest Follow
Xper 5 Age: 31 , mho 51%

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The only way to come to terms is to tell him, he may beat the sh*t out of you which you deserve and he needs to divorce her. Its sh*tty and it is equally both of your fault. her husband has no fault in this no one makes another cheat it is the decisions of the cheaters to do it. You should feel really bad and yeah it may be fun but someday that fun will stop. Some day karma catches up and it will suck when it does. If you are any kind of man you will tell him yourself. Regardless there will come a point when you get your ass beat for it just take it like a man you already took what was important to him. wives are not things to be passed from person to person it is wrong and you shamed yourself in doing it.

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Anonymous
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He's going to find out eventually. Would you prefer that he find out from you, or from someone else? Going by his behavior, he clearly doesn't trust his wife, so I'm sure this is isn't the first time she has cheated on him. Check your car tires on a regular basis to make sure they're not slashed. And hopefully this one is obvious: Stick to single women from now on.

YOLO: Justifying terrible ideas since 2004.

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- sexyasianboi26
  
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  Well I talked to her about it after her husband knocked on my door. She is sexually frustrated, she is 40 and has not had sex in 5 years due to her husband's impotence. Anyway, I'm not worried about him slashing my tires. All of the cars are parked in a heavily secured garage.
  
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Pummel Follow
Xper 4 Age: 37

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You should but than again I wouldn't be worried about any physical retaliation from a husband... Unless that husband is over the age of 40 years old.. Because anyone under that age are so pumped up with soy products that their penises have shot back inside their bodies... like a frightened turtle.
And they have no clue what it means to be a man... and that is very sad. FUCKING SOCIAL BRAINWASHING
Telling guys not to be men!!!

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TeamNiceGuy Follow
Xper 6 Age: 29 , mho 77%

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Lol if this isn't fake then expect a weapon to be in get husbands hand next time he knocks on the door. Sleep with one eye open is all I can say... He knows where you live ;)

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AudiR8 Follow
Xper 3 Age: 38 , mho 31%

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He can hear the shower from upstairs? This is bull!

and you're disgusting if that turns you on.

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- AudiR8
  
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  @Update: you forgot to add... "and a liar" or if you truly believe this happened then add "someone with mental problems".
  
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- sexyasianboi26
  
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  Lol I really don't care if you believe it or not. I'm over being paranoid now, she reassured me last night ;).
  
  Anyway you'll experience something like this, not now, maybe later in life. You can't escape it, just like how you can't escape knowing a news of someone you know died.
  
  Food for thought.
  
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- AudiR8
  
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  Delusional.
  
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Hamburgers Follow
Xper 2 Age: 80

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Women do what women do best.

It's not your fault. You just did what most men would do.

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- calialltheway1993
  
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  "Women do what women do best" explanation?
  
  Most men? You just justified men as cheaters.
  
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- Hamburgers
  
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  I didn't say men cheat. I said if p**** is in front of a man he's going to take it.
  
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- calialltheway1993
  
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  That's another name for cheating.
  
  Don't crush my hopes.
  
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- Hamburgers
  
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  Lmao. QA is single, I don't mean guys in relationships.
  
  But I won't sugarcoat it, there is a large proportion of guys in a relationship that will take sex if it's available to him. It's how guys are biologically designed, unfortunately.
  
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- calialltheway1993
  
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  :(
  
  I was happy until now.
  
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- Hamburgers
  
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  Yeahhh it sucks but that can happen with girls to ya know? I personally could never cheat because it hurts too much, so they do exist.
  
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kangaru Follow
Xper 5 Age: 46

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u need to have self control, and please stay miles away from your neighbour from now on

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Anonymous
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Him knocking on your door means he already KNOWS...:P

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- sexyasianboi26
  
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  l?_?
  
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- Opinion Owner
  
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  why would he knock on your door specifically? every woman's husband who do not know where their wife was they knock on their neighbor's door?
  
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- Opinion Owner
  
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  nowadays that's what we use cell phones for :)
  
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skinandbones Follow
Xper 7 Age: 89 , mho 45%

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if that dude is anything like my husband...ahahahahahhaa. they'll be collecting your body parts for the next decade. say goodbye to your loved ones!

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- sexyasianboi26
  
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  no he's not. I dnt think he's even human.
  
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Anonymous
(45 Plus)

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You can't just expect people to give you a pass on being a selfish bastard of a home wrecker.

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Anonymous
(30-35)

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Maybe he'll be interested in sharing his wife with you.

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Anonymous
(45 Plus)

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You're a POS. Don't ruin a marriage because you're a selfish prick.

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- sexyasianboi26
  
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  :/
  
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Anonymous
(30-35)

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stop seeing his wife.

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Anonymous
(36-45)

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It was nice knowing you...

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- Pedantic
  
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  Hopefully he doesn't wind up in the morgue.
  
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- Opinion Owner
  
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  Yeah..I'd be putting a FOR SALE sign outside ASAP.
  
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mnimal Follow
Xper 5 Age: 37 , mho 53%

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yolo f***ed you up!

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- YoshQ
  
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  HAhahahaha.
  
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Anonymous
(30-35)

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live with the consequences

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Anonymous
(36-45)

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Are you in singapore? Doesn't sound much of a real story,is that your sex fantasy?

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- sexyasianboi26
  
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  Singapore? lol
  
  Nope, I'm here in DC
  
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- Opinion Owner
  
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  Get a life and go easy on milf fantasy
  
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- sexyasianboi26
  
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  says the anon, show your face boy!
  
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- Opinion Owner
  
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  Ooohhh, liar trying to sound tough... Keep wanking looser
  
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- sexyasianboi26
  
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  Judging by how you sound, you even 18 to be on here? Nvm I don't know why I'm wasting a few seconds of my life to prove something to you. I don't care if all of you believe it or not.
  
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Anonymous
(30-35)

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Sounds like your a horrible person

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LilKim Follow
Xper 7 Age: 44

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Move?

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Anonymous
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I bet this isn't true

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- AudiR8
  
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  I bet you'll win this bet!
  
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- Opinion Owner
  
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  Hahahahahah
  
  I bet you this you're right
  
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