How much do you prefer to see a woman in high heels over flats? People always make a big deal about how great I look if I wear high heels, but I don't enjoy wearing them that often and I'm 5'8 so I typically stick with plain black flats. How much of a difference would this make in your perception of a girl?
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Welcome to life, where people are making judgments about you. You cannot control what people think about what you are doing or not doing. So, there's no use trying to change how the world is, how men think, be angry at reality, resist reality, or fail to accept how things work. What you can control though, is what you do or don't do.
A woman who doesn't wear heels is sexually boring, unless she's wearing flip flops to the beach during the summer. Guys don't like boring and flat women. Men are attracted to women for how alive, energetic, and feminine a woman is. It's a pleasant change to their stoic male existence. So, wearing things that take away from highlighting those qualities makes a woman seem less attractive. She may as well put a dildo in her underwear and see how guys respond.
Heels are designed to highlight femininity. Their arch replicates the arch of the female foot during orgasm. They posture a woman to walk like a young river nymph, tip toeing and signaling that she is excited about the man approaching her territory and accepting of him and open to and eager at the idea of having sex with him. It's alive, energetic, feminine, young, and attractive. Of course, I'm describing a 4 inch arch, which means 4-5 inch heels.
By wearing heels, you dare to become sexually relevant on a man's radar. It's scary, I understand. Without heels, if you don't get the attention you want from a man, you can always revert to the excuse of not really trying to begin with. With heels, that excuse is not available. You are trying. You're putting yourself out there. You are sending out sexual cues, and failure of men to respond is taken as rejection of who you are as a woman and as a sexual person. But that's also what makes heels sexy. They go a step further and state to men that you're not afraid to put yourself out there. You're not afraid of being judged sexually, because you anticipate favorable and positive results. It communicates confidence in your sexuality, and that's what's really attractive about a woman wearing heels - she is communicating that she is confident and comfortable with herself sexually.0