So this year I became best friends with a girl who is in a lot of my classes (She'll be H). We got along great. So one day H starts dating this guy (We'll call him D) who's always loved my other friend (We'll call her Y). H and D date for a while. Meanwhile Y's heart is breaking, she really liked... Show More
I accidentally spread a rumor, what should I do?
What Guys Said
the only way to kill a rumor is with another, or let time pass by hoping people will forget, usually other gossip
don't bring it up unless your victim does and don't be defensive or instigating if you find yourself in the conversation or you won't mend the relationship, but rather wedge it further apart...you need to be passive and apologetic until the victim "calms" down and "moves on"...this takes time, so reconsider before starting a rumor...usually rumors are weapons to break up or unfriend someone, usually permanently
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