If a guy tells me to cover up my bra strap...?

[Anonymous]

A guy friend and I were chatting on webcam. I was wearing a loose shirt so it slipped over my shoulder and exposed my bra strap. I didn't notice nor really care. My guy friend pointed out that my bra strap is showing (for my sake). I gave him a 'really?' look. He just laughed and said its to avoid temptation.

Admittedly I might have a thing for him...but the fact that he told me to cover up (as opposed to leaving it exposed) strongly suggests no sexual attraction from his side, right?

[l-hedoniste]

"He just laughed and said ***its to avoid temptation***." This is called a hint.

You say you have a thing for him? Next time, just take your shirt off, just to see what he does, "How's this, tempted yet?" Make it interesting.

[Asker]

Even though the first time he told me to cover up was said in a sort of serious off-handed tone? 'Hey, your bra strap is showing'. Its only when I gave him the look that he got cheeky on me!

Hmm, although taking off my shirt would be a great surprise, or just take off my bra under my shirt and toss it away. Look! No more bra straps, now get over it!

[l-hedoniste]

Now you're thinking, girl!

[Anonymous]

You're reading too much into things, just like any typical girl.

[Asker]

Ahahahaha! So f***ing true.

[Eiffelgirl21]

and you're a typical man...

[xzinax2]

i doubt he'd notice if there was no sex. attraction,maybe he just wants to be friends,and doesn't want to think of you in a sexual way for the sake of it ruining your friendship

[Asker]

Hmm, there might be a lot of truth in what you say actually.

[islands7]

Wrong

It means he will play by the rules of respect but is tempted by your body to do fantasy things to it/you.

[Asker]

I would be very happy if this was true.

[WaleedHassanien]

no because if yes he wouldn't even bother to tell you, let alone saying "to avoid temptation."

[Asker]

Valid point, I didn't think the fact that he noticed may be an indication of something else.

[Maestr077]

It's like having desert right in front of you but you can't eat it.

Sometimes you rather have it taken away from your sight not to feel tempted.

[lv4lv]

"He just laughed and said its to avoid temptation."

"strongly suggests no sexual attraction from his side, right?"

...What.

[Asker]

Well he laughed! I mean maybe he realized from my look that he should add a flirty banter after basically telling me to cover myself up.

Why else would a guy tell you to cover up?

[lv4lv]

Guys are very visual. I believe was being totally serious. If you wanna go further you could come right out and ask him in a flirty way. :P

[SALAHADDIN]

he is a p**** ...unfortunately ...

[lover-dude34]

He,s bein a gentleman

[taster]

I would say that you are probably wrong...

[KarKingJack]

Lol, did you take your bra off the next time?

[Asker]

Ha! Nope, he is trying really hard to stop flirting for some reason.

[KarKingJack]

Serious? Huhh

[Anonymous]

He's just joking. Don't read much into it.

[Ezmotts]

He's stopping you from looking like a tramp.

[BrownCurlyHairedGirl]

yeah. makes sense.

[king_J]

it means nothing

[cantsleep]

yes he is gay

[PinkitGirl]

hahaha

[Shaun]

Wrong.