Girls, do you get more insecure around your crush?

[Anonymous]

[StewieRH]

Oh certainly. I get more insecure around my boyfriend. I think it's a just a thing of because you want them to like you and you want them to find you attractive so you worry that you actually are looking attractive.

I can go to college with no makeup, my hair a little greasy and wearing a big comfy hoodie but if I'm going to my bf's then out comes the blusher and mascara, I panic what my hair looks like and get indecisive about what I'm going to wear because I want to look good but not like I'm trying to hard. I usually end up in a vest, skinny jeans, nice shoes and a denim or leather jacket.

[Asker]

So if he were to make a comment about what annoys him so to say, would you start wondering if he is indirectly saying you're annoying?

[StewieRH]

I may wonder that, yes. Although he usually tells me when I annoy him and then I worry and stop doing it although in some cases it makes me a little angry like if I was only trying to do something nice or I was just talking to him about one of my worries.

[InvisibleSuperGirl]

Depends on what he's doing. If he's talking to me a bunch and being really sweet and nice then I get more confident, but if he's just kind of ignoring me then I feel like total crap. If he's looking at me, I get kind of conflicted because it could be because he thinks I look hot, but it could also be because i look weird and crappy. It's tough

[bvvvt]

I don't look at him at all and it's fucking annoying cuz i have a crush basically on everyone at my uni omg (x I had this guy wanting to talk to me cuz he probably knew i liked him and i didn't talk to him.
I usually don't date a crush, cuz that would make me feel like crap and nah even if he asked me out id still not talk to him.

[AniMoo]

When I'm around my crush I normally start being very sarcastic and joking around. Like. A lot. XD it's the only way for me to handle my nervousness, I just start cracking jokes and being sarcastic around him

[CocoChanelN5]

For sure. You just become aware of your every move, word, breath because you're trying so hard to not divert their attention or possible appeal away from you.

[xxChristina]

Yes, but it's not because of him. It's just because he's so out of my league... although, I must say, once he made a joke about me having a small ass and I did very aggressive squats that night.

[justbanANNAz]

it depends on how he makes me feel. some guys can make me feel like I'm on top of the world. others make me feel like crap.

[HersheysBabe]

It depends on how comfortable I feel around him 😊 If we're already friends or not, stuff like that...

[nicole_SOA]

Yep. (: it sucks.
Unless I'm close with him and feelings came after friends. But yeah. More shy thsn anything.

[_just_another_]

I'm insecure as it is and my crush happens to be my guy friend so I admit it's more awkward for me now and I feel I have no chance so yes

[existing_not_living]

Yes. Always. I get even more insecure when my crush admits to liking me as well. For some reason it makes me super nervous, haha.

[NerdyGirl64]

Nervous, yes. Happy, yes. Insecure, not really. It's often the highlight of my day.