My experience with the opposite sex is terrible and i would like your point of you in some things I have noticed from a co-worker, please.
- He gets passive aggressive with me when he is stressed at work.
- He tells me what i should be drinking? for example was told not to drink soda, while others are drinking the same drink.
- Always feels like he needs to explain himself, if he has done something that has frustrated me.
- Talks to other co-workers about their sex lives, but if mine get brought up he goes quiet.
- Is more than happy to have a conversation with my parents and brags to them about all the girls who flirt with him. WTF...
- When saying goodbye the other day, hugged everyone goodbye except me. But is totally okay to get in my personal space on other occasions.
- He says my full name more times in 1 shift, than my family members do in a day.
- I notice it is easier for him to talk to other girls than it is to talk to me.
- When another male co-worker (who has had a crush on me) is around he lingers around more than when he usually would.
- In meetings, sits either across from me or next to me, but mostly across.
- He is flirty and gives more banter towards me when he has had alcohol.
I know these are childish and its frustrates me too, i want to speak to him about it, but I don't know how to approach this situation but i do want to understand from other peoples perspective of his behaviours towards me.
Thank you
