How long does it takes for you to develop feeling, not strong but you know like you like him and want to see him everyday or talk to him?
Girls, how long does it take for you to get a crush on someone?
It depends, but usually it's not instant for me. I might see a guy that I'm attracted to and then find out that he's cute and funny and start thinking about him, but I won't actually have a real crush on him. I usually either see a guy as a possibility but then wait to decide if I actually do like him or not, or I do like the guy but I don't realize I have a crush on him until later. For my crush, I think it took around 3 weeks until I started wanting to talk to him and see him everyday and thought about him a lot. I didn't say that I had a crush on him, but I started to develop feelings and I think that's like the quickest I've ever developed feelings for a guy before. But this is different for everyone. I have a friend that will pretty much have a new crush everyday.
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It has ranged from a few hours to a couple of years. lol
But that doesn't mean I'd pursue it either way.
hahah for example: When I went to Peru to visit family I met my mother's friend's son and we hit it off! Well I thought so. I was probably 13-14 and he was 16. I kissed him on the cheek that night and couldn't eat for the next week because I thought I was in "love." ha ha But I didn't pursue it after that night because I knew better. He was too old for me and interested in more than a kiss on the cheek. Also he lived in a different country. hehehe.
I think it takes me about 1-2 years to start pursue a crush. I like to be friends before I start trying to be more.
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That depends on a lot of things, sometimes it can be immediately, from the moment I met him (quite rare). Most of time it's when I start hanging out with him, when we've been alone and when I've seen a few of his different behaviors. But of course, if he's really cute it can go way faster
It differs. Sometimes I know I like someone the moment I meet them, sometimes it'll be a while afterward till I realize how much I really like them. My current crush happened after the first time we had a long conversation together on a bus ride.
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It can be a wide range; there is no right answer. The guy I have a crush on now, it took almost two and a half years to develop my crush on him and I am on cloud 9, but other men it took less time so its whenever you start feeling that lovely butterflies :-)
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Depends on how frequently we talk and how well we click. It could be a couple of weeks for a small crush if we talk frequently and they're easy to talk to. Or it could take several months if we don't talk that often or we just don't have that much in common.
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It usually doesn't take me very long to develop a crush. Growing into something more, it takes a while. But my crushing on someone can happen after only a few remarks sometimes. I just get a good vibe from some people :-)
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It comes down to his own actions :) Depending on how bold he is, how respectful he is, how cleaver he is, if he's brilliant and creative...it's all about what he presents to me and how quickly he presents it.
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It usually takes me one conversation to notice that there's some potential there. And then a few weeks to develop that sort of emotional attachment.
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For me, personally, a while. I don't give away my heart too easily, because when I do, I give it away completely.
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IT TAKES ME A 15 YEAR OLD, LIKE IF ITS A NICE GUY THAT I SEE AND TALK TO ALMOST EVERYDAY IT WOULD BE A MONTH TO HAVE A CRUSH THEN 2 AND A HALF WEEKS TO DEVELOP FEELINGS. AFTER 2 MORE WEEKS WHICH WOULD BE 70 DAYS AKA (2 MONTHS AND A WEEK) AS A GIRL I WOULD TRY TO ASK YOU OUT. by the way REMEMBER THIS IS ALL IN A TEENAGE GIRL'S MIND.
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I've only ever had about 5 crushes
But My most resent and biggest/hardest crush ( only one to give me butterflies ) not long like " love at first sight " and it's getting stronger , my feelings for him -
for the crush I have right now it took like 2 weeks.
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It depends on the guy. It could be instantaneous from the first time that I have a conversation with him or it could take a few years for me to look at him in that light.
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Well, when I saw my boyfriend for the first time, it was instant.
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It took me 6 months to realize that I had feelings for my ex coworker.
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wait a while. Idon't give away your heart too easily, when you decide to do this this, you must give it completely
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Idk I don't just get crushes easily, but when I do it's in a very short amount of time
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All the crushes I got are crushes at first sight.
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Minutes :)
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