Why do girls look at me from a distance but ignore me up close?

Is it a shy thing or something? If I am walking towards a group of girls I can see them looking at me from a far off distance but about half way to each other they act like I don't exist. I know it has nothing to do with looks or the lack thereof because I have been called hot, cute, adorable, gorgeous, handsome and other sh*t.


Most Helpful Girl

  • your probably are cute and a lot of girls get intimidated by that. if you see a girl looking at you look back and smile if she blushes are smiles back walk up at talk to her :D


What Girls Said 3

  • Girls were checking you out and that's a compliment. The looking away thing is a part of playing hard to get and maybe you're out of their league or they have a guy. Next time if anyone of them in a group makes eye contact then definitely try to hold eye contact and smile. You'll know by her smile if she's single and interested or just interested. You could and should be really bold and ask for the time or directions or hey do you know what time this place closes. Women love a guy with confidence. Being she was already smiling and your asking something innocent in front of her friends they won't even suspect a thing. If she engages in this verbal exchange you have about 10 seconds to be memorable.

  • they are doing that to make you care aboyt them dnt but your atention


What Guys Said 1

  • Yes, it could be shyness, it could be that they are seeing whether you notice them to boost their ego - who knows! who cares!

    Your getting looks dude, so chill out and enjoy the attention. I would walk up to those girls, confidently, with a smile on my face and say "hello" initiate a conversation. If none respond just smile and walk on. Good Luck mate!