There is this girl working at a bagel shop near my house. I try to never eat junk food because I care a lot about my health and the way I look, but I went there for a couple of days in a row just because I am way too tired to cook.
First time I went there I said hi and asked for my order so everything's fine. The next 2 or 3 days whenever I come in she turns away, goes in the kitchen, hide and makes her colleague take my order even though she is the one who takes them usually. I also passed by her in the street today and I saw her looking at me from a distance but when I got to a few feet close to her she turned her head away to speak with her colleague when I wanted to greet her. This also happened with a personal trainer at my gym, she never looks directly at me but lingers around me all the time.
I just want to know why this happens because for the past few months I saw a lot of girls avoid me in certain casual situations. I am a very well mannered and nice individual, respecting boundaries and I always try to step away from people more often than just to not be rude, this is how I was taught. Do I have a staring problem? Do I give weird vibes from my body language? Do those women maybe find me attractive and are just shy? I would like your opinion in this!
First time I went there I said hi and asked for my order so everything's fine. The next 2 or 3 days whenever I come in she turns away, goes in the kitchen, hide and makes her colleague take my order even though she is the one who takes them usually. I also passed by her in the street today and I saw her looking at me from a distance but when I got to a few feet close to her she turned her head away to speak with her colleague when I wanted to greet her. This also happened with a personal trainer at my gym, she never looks directly at me but lingers around me all the time.
I just want to know why this happens because for the past few months I saw a lot of girls avoid me in certain casual situations. I am a very well mannered and nice individual, respecting boundaries and I always try to step away from people more often than just to not be rude, this is how I was taught. Do I have a staring problem? Do I give weird vibes from my body language? Do those women maybe find me attractive and are just shy? I would like your opinion in this!
