How can I not be awkward with my personal trainer?

[Anonymous]

Ok well he's more than a trainer he's my friend, and Ex friends with benefits. We had sex for three months. He is friends with all my friends though and once a week trains everyone. I keep not going because I'm nervous. I'm not even in that good of shape. But I'm worried about being awkward. How can I be cute and friendly?

[MyNameIsJonas]

Do you still or did you ever have feelings for him?

If it was ended mutually and you both knew it was only a friends with benefits situation I don't think you have any reason to feel nervous or awkward. You can always reach out to him and talk about it.

[Asker]

Yes I still have feelings for him and they have gotten much more intense. I ended it saying "even though I still don't want a relationship I feel kind of attached to you and realized that when I saw you flirting with other girls"

[Asker]

Anyways we kept talking and he's a really kind guy.. but it ended on us both wanting to keep our friendship

[MyNameIsJonas]

Well then it kind of worked out Ok for the both of you!

[ItsTheColeTrainBaby]

Don't worry about it, just go, it'll feel weird for the first minute or two but after that it'll be like whatever. Just remember to smile and laugh and greet him with a hug, it will make the situation more comfortable