How do you women base your attractiveness on men?

[Meteora]

As a man I'd say most other guys including myself would split up our decision on whether a woman was attractive or not 50/50.

Both looks and personality 50/50 matter.

If you have a disagreement about that guys write a response to it.

But back to women. AND THE REAL QUESTION!

How do you split it up? Style, wealth, success, health, looks(w/height), cawk size lol, personality, voice, and whatever the hell else you can think of!

[EmpressMe]

Actions.

My attraction to men is simply based on their actions.

Looks can be deceiving. It's so easy for people to rely on their looks instead of taking it to the next level.

Personality, with the help of Facebook, Twitter, and social status, can be edited to a picture perfect display. I've seen so many people portray this false awesome personality, but it's either over exaggerated or not completely sincere.

All of this had led me to the conclusion that all I can trust of someone is their actions. A nice physical appearance and surface personality can deceive me; but actions are the truest reflection of who somebody is. Actions are what make someone attractive or unattractive. I've genuinely gotten to the point where there can be two guys; one, I am extremely attracted to initially. The other, I'm not really attracted to at all initially. *that comes from the physical appearance* But if the one I was attracted to at first is a disgusting, disrespectful pig, I get turned off. If the other guy is charming, daring, and fun, I feel "inexplicably attracted" to him. And it's because his actions outranked the hot a**hole's actions.

I think people should focus on enhancing their actions as much as girls focus on having the perfect body, hair, and face and guys focus on being muscular and penis size and what not. People need to start having the most engaging actions rather than having the most engaging Facebook page. Be an experience someone wants deeply instead of a nice surface attraction. It means more.

[Meteora]

Action 100% then?

Sounds like a classic Micheal Bay film haha

[Meteora]

Great answer nonetheless :)

[EmpressMe]

lol, thanks

I have to be attracted to him, but the way that he acts and the things that he does is what makes or breaks the attraction.

[Meteora]

So looks get you interested at first

but action is what keeps the attraction flowing?

[EmpressMe]

Damn straight! I understand that some actions people don't mean or they do them because of anxiety or shyness or alcohol lol, but for the most part actions are never as deceptive as looks and social image unless you're just dealing with someone who's fake. I feel that actions are all I can trust when it comes to attraction.

[EmpressMe]

I can't trust a hot body or a big cawk *hehe, love your spelling :)* I can't trust a lovely Facebook profile; I can trust what a guy does or doesn't do as an accurate representation :)

[Meteora]

What are you hoping having 100% trust will bring?

Assuming you both trust each other.

[EmpressMe]

100% trust elevates the connection and the strength of your bond.

If you're lucky enough to find someone who you can reveal many layers of yourself to and just take off every bit of that edited version of ourselves and just completely let go and be free with; it's like a whole different realm of a bond.

[LadyStark]

For me, it's all about how you handle yourself. It's how you carry yourself and how you interact with me. Regardless of your height, age, or body, this is what determines whether I find you hot - if you excite me. It just so happens that most guys with charisma are the ones who have nice bodies, because that's a way they feed their confidence.

Please note the only exception to the above rule that I can currently think of: hygiene. Poor hygiene will turn me off 100% of the time.

[Meteora]

Great input! :D

[DirtyDiaper]

for me I average a 1-10 score in face, body, and personality and average that with a 1-10 score in girlfriend material. if the final is over 7 I try for a relationship. note girlfriend material and personality are 2 different things she could be the nicest person ever but if our needs don't match and she's the total opposite of me she gets a 10 in personality and probably like a 3 or 4 in girlfriend material thus I wouldn't even bother trying for a relationship

[Highschooldude]

I'd say that for me it's a three-sided issue... Attractiveness in looks, body shape, and personality. So 2 of 3 are controllable , and 2 of 3 makes an overall attractive person... Unfortunately the first two are weighted more heavily in my mind at least. But for me those are the main 3.

[Meteora]

Wouldn't body shape be apart of Looks?

[Meteora]

Appreciate the answer my friend :)

[Highschooldude]

I separate them. Looks I mostly go for the face, you know, when you think someone is "pretty". Body shape I count differently, mostly because it is controlable to some degree. Also, there are fat pretty people and ugly people with good bodies. So that's just how I break it up.

[angel1142]

General physic appearance focused on his face and body shape: 40.

Good person: considerate, honnest, attentionate, loving, caring, with morals, funny, easy-going, cultured, brave: 60.

[Anonymous]

Arent you the creep First of the year who asked girls "do you find me attrctive" then bitch and call them names? Yep I remember your face. I see you are back again again and again lol

[Opinion Owner]

cant answer? because you know its you lol

[Anonymous]

Idk I just generally like a cute face, masculine tough guy type, easy to talk to, dresses nice, friendly, good person, non judgmental