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Search Results: how to get him to ask me out
When she says she wants things to happen naturally, am I on hold or being let go?
I’m a 30-year-old guy working night shift security at a hospital, and I’m currently stuck in a nuanced, low-pressure dynamic with a coworker named Bev that I need some perspective on. After getting out of a relationship...
darkcatmax
Xper 4 Age: 30 Can guys be friends with girls?
Is it true that guys never want to be friends with girls? I feel like I get along better with guys so I hang out and talk with guys more. Does that mean that there is something going on between us absolutely not I just...
Anonymous
(30-35) How can I get better at talking to girls without awkward silences?
I am still single and i have a hard time at dating. When i see attractive girl i want to approach the thing holding me back is that i dont know what would i say and talk about. my biggest fear is walking up to an...
Anonymous
(25-29) My bestfriend has nothing to do with me since I have had my daughter and I can’t seem to get over it?
For context…we were best friends for over 20 years. She acted like was excited about me having a baby and now she is completely MIA. I stopped reaching out and she never reaches out to me and asks me anything regarding my...
Anonymous
(30-35) Was I wrong to walk out on this double date after being used as a pawn?
I recently got asked on a date from a guy whose on the same university course as me. I said yes and he told me it be a double date with some friends of his, that I also know from uni and that we were going to this really...
Anonymous
(25-29) Was my McDonald’s boss out of line, or am I just too sensitive?
I work at mcdonald's. I work with the gm most days of the week. When I arrived today, they were extremely busy. It was just him, and someone on grill. So we were extremely very understaffed. As always. Later my other boss...
Joe917
Xper 4 Age: 34 Is my coworker actually interested or am I overthinking her signals?
I have gotten pretty close to a coworker over the past few weeks. When we first exchanged numbers, she’d take forever to text back and even admitted she “forgot” to respond sometimes. Then after she went through some...
Anonymous
(25-29) Am I wrong for asking my parents to delay my inheritance during divorce?
I was with my wife for 5 years, married for three. Out of the blue she said she wanted a divorce, she wants to enjoy being single with her BFF and go out and have girl days and travel and not be tied down. I was...
Anonymous
(25-29) How common is it for you to vividly remember a memory that isn't true? Like, being 200% convinced your threat is where it isn't?
I 100% experienced it in the last couple days. Someone terrorized me growing up so badly and then terrorized even more if i tried to get help, lured in to make me ask for help only to deny it, that his words seemed to...
stalk-stopper
Xper 1 Age: 22 Is this workplace bullying or just a coworker keeping it professional?
I work in healthcare, and a coworker and I had a disagreement over communication related to patient care. She had previously told me she’d be at work before her first patient, but ended up running late. I told her...
Anonymous
(30-35) Has past trauma made me hypersensitive to patterns in others’ behavior?
So right now im on medical leave, but I was on nightshift for about 5 years. My ex was on nightshift but moved to dayshift at the beginning of the year. During that time, a mutual coworker started talking to me as...
Anonymous
(25-29) How can I cope as a Christian fearing my online friend has died?
I am a Christian on the spectrum and I believe my online friend passed away. I haven’t heard from them for a while and they’ve been offline on all social medias. I’ve prayed to my lord and savior to just give me a sign...
liliaanabluee
Xper 1 Age: 25 Is it true that men are the self sabatogers of relationships? Do you feel men like the idea of a relationship but not the reality?
Medium magazine-"When men "like the idea of relationships but not the reality," it typically means they crave the benefits of companionship (like intimacy and validation) but are overwhelmed by the everyday efforts...
Smileygirl2000
Xper 3 Age: 26 What does "the guy who likes to watch" actually want from a woman?
I tell a guy I love to dance and he starts to whine about how his dancing days are over. I ask "really"? and start teasing him about it bc he's physically fit and very sporty, so this seems odd. I tell him that it's too...
How do I end this story?
Olivia has a one night stand with a random stranger after getting drunk at a bar with him. 2 months later, she is a new hire at a publishing company. The guy turns out to be her new boss named Max who just got back...
Am I mistaking a natural flirt’s behavior for genuine interest?
For my job, the people I work with switch from shift to shift. Sometimes I meet new coworkers, other times I reunite with familiar ones. There’s this coworker (32M) I’ve become more familiar with in the past couple of...
Anonymous
(25-29) Did my incarcerated friend make me his girlfriend without asking?
Long story short, I (40/f) have a male friend (35) who is currently doing a little bit of time behind bars. He’s ex military and had some issues after he got out. When we met, I was currently in a very bad relationship...
Anonymous
(36-45) Why do I still care about someone who rejected and hurt me so much?
Me 26, a master's student, Living in private accommodation shared a flat with a Chinese girl. We become the best friends. I fell in love she didn't, I told her, she rejected, we still were the best friends. Then...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why is this coworker acting so hot and cold toward me after our argument?
Girl and I used to get along super well she asked if I was single would playfully push me and blush when people said she was my wife her friends were super nice, then we had an argument where she stared at me 24/7 and...
Coolpen813
Xper 2 Age: 24 Why did this guy suddenly ‘ghost’ me after 3 amazing months of dating?
I matched with a guy on a dating app. He and I are talking for a bit and the chemistry is great, we have a lot of the same interests. We agree to go on a date a week later to watch a movie and grab a drink, and I felt...
Guttercat8
Xper 1 Age: 23 