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Search Results: why are guys jerks
Why do people defend rude behavior, especially when it’s from another woman?
So I was telling this woman about how another person was being mean/rude. And I hear things like 'some people may not even realize they're being rude,' etc. etc. As though they're five year olds kids who wouldn't know....
Anonymous
(36-45) Have you ever thought someone was desperate for you but it turned out they were just treating you like everyone else?
This has probably happened to me multiple times but this post is inspired by my friend explaining "humbling" texts to me. Which she says are when desperate guys try to knock you down a peg after being "made" to put in a...
Shubh0078
Xper 1 Age: 24 Why is my guy friend acting like a jerk now that I lost weight?
Like what’s his deal? I mean he’s happy that I’m living a healthier life style but he says I have changed. I asked him what does he mean? He said I’m not the quiet sweet girl anymore and quite frankly I was less...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why is my ex crying over staying friends after he dumped me?
I've only been dating this guy named Jack for 4-5 months. He suddenly asked to break up today. I felt like it was rude for him to break up with me over text. So I told him to grow some balls and do it in-person. He...
Anonymous
(25-29) Avoidant behavior or just a jerk?
So I was seeing a guy that I kinda work with but not close he’s in a different dept. I’m not proud of it but lesson learned. Anyway, we were seeing each other since June. Everything seemed to be great until July hit and...
Jenny265
Xper 2 Age: 41 Why do I suddenly keep thinking about my guy friend lately?
I don’t understand what the hell is going on. I always told him I only liked him as a friend or hinted to him. I always chased after guys that were out of my league and they never paid any attention of me. I mean who was...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why do some people keep asking when am I going to get a man or start dating again?
Okay so I just turned 36 almost three months ago and I haven’t dated since I was like 21/22 years old back in 2011. The only relationship I’ve had was with a guy that I went to school with. We’ve known each other since we...
MizzArtFreak89
Xper 5 Age: 36 Why don’t black guys like much black women anymore?
Now as a black young woman I prefer my own race or men or color. I don’t know I’m that’s what I prefer. I never dated a black man so I want to date my race. I always get some white guys liking me (not often). There’s...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why would most men refuse to date a woman that’s 6ft?
I mean I’m 6ft and dating is shit for me. Guys reject me, shun me and leave before dates start. I’ve always been a bigger girl and. I guy has looked my way especially the guys I had a crush humiliated me. They always...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why is that the good looking guys I wanted either were jerks or always went for stunning girls? Why do I always attract guys I don’t want?
I struggled with weight all my life. I’m 6ft, currently 219lbs. I was fine when I was younger until I got chubbier at 8 years old. Middle school I was chubby and then I got really fat in high school. Never had a boyfriend...
Anonymous
(25-29) Do you think it’s stupid that my friend tells me the right man hasn’t came become God is telling me he’s been beside me all this time?
I haven’t gotten the best luck when it comes to dating and boyfriends. Every guy I was with it never worked out. I got cheated on, dumped it I dumped them. Why? Why doesn’t work? Some guy I knew say it’s because I’m...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why would my male friend find me beautiful before I got slimmer?
So I’ve never been slim or thin but I was always a chubby, thick girl with a lot of weight on me. Guys I liked always likes other girls or slimmer girls. My guy friend who is a thick guy (was a chubby big boy in school)...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is "Avoidant Mentality" fake justification for poor behavior?
I was researching a little in response to a different question about folks who "flake" or "ghost" or whatever you want to call the hot-and-cold game some folks like to play. I've always dismissed it as "this guy's a jerk"...
Is it bad that I only try to hook up my special needs sister with special needs guys?
My sister is special needs. She claims that she isn’t because she’s no longer in special education but she’s autistic, so yes she is a special person. She’s smart, does well in school and goes to college, but social...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is there anything stopping you from dating?
I like men, don’t get me wrong. But the thought of ending up dating a guy who is overly sexual, jerks off constantly, and asks questions regarding his dick makes me want to remain single. Like 1 If you’re going to be...
Anonymous
(18-24) Why do most guy friends end up liking or falling in love with a female friend?
I can never make guy friends that will end up falling in love or liking me. My guy friend I’ve known for years my friends keep telling me he’s in love with me and always gives me a sly look when they talk to me about him....
Anonymous
(25-29) Why does my friends always give me that sly look when they talk about my guy friend?
Lets call him (Preston). Weve known Preston since childhood. He always called me his “girlfriend” even though I’ve told him we’re just friends. We’re both autistic. Anyways my friends try to give me “hints” about...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why are the only guys who are attracted to me ones who want to hurt me?
I’m attracted to a lot of different guys, but the only ones who ever show interest in me are creeps or jerks (ask about the time I was saed before you question my assertion). Im honestly not sure if I’ve ever had a...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why does my dad always ask if I’ve spoken to my guy friend? Why would he think my current boyfriend is a huge mistake?
My dad said, “Do you talk to (let’s call him Eddy? When was the last time you talked to him?” How’s does he feel about you dating this guy?” I got annoyed and said, “Stop. He’s not my boyfriend. He texted me the other...
Anonymous
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