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Hello everyone! Im currently dating two guys, Neil and Zach, and I dunno which one would be better for me.
Neil is a very handsome man, and he's also fun to be around.
But if I start a relationship, it is gonna be long distance.. And it will take more than 8 hours to see him every time. I also have a very full program so I won't be able to see him often. He acts immature at times. He tries to make me feel stupid sometimes. Also once, he fully explained to me how some random girls had started a conversation with him at a bar, and asked him out. He even said he accepted them on social media and they texted. When i got mad he said he'd never cheat on someone and that flirting is normal. I've heard he once had gotten into a fight with another guy and punched him for a friend of mine, because they both liked her. Anyway, he mentions that friend a lot:/.. He can't find a good job easily as his uni is not that good
Now Zach attends a very good university. He also lives just one hour away from me. He's never been rude to me till now, he's a gentleman. He's more mature than Neil tbh. I think he'd treat me better and that we would have a more serious thing. But he's definitely not as good looking as Neil. He's average looking. I'm not attracted to him as much as I'm attracted to neil. I dont know him as well as I know Neil. So I dont know his bad characteristics. I dunno if Zach wants a relationship. Neil wants a relationship but Zach didn't tell me if he wants one. He just told me that he's never had a serious relationship for the 3 years that he's moved to the same place as me to attend university. I dunno if I want to be in a serious relationship. I think it might tire me. If I dated Neil things would be easier because it seems thay we're both kinda fooling around a little. But Zach seems more serious as a guy. If we seriously dated my friends from uni would know.. So the whole uni would.. So which one guys?

I'm torn between two guys, one I really like, he's good looking, makes me laugh but he has a questionable personality, he doesn't mind doing illegal things, and he's kind of a bad boy and he's not ready to have kids now. And he's a bit lazy.
The other guy is not good looking, but he has the sweetest personality ever, he'll do anything and everything to make me happy, and he also has values that I'd love to pass to my children. He's ambitious and works like crazy and he's ready to have a family now.
I'm confused as to who to choose because both of them have characteristics that I love.

Bad boy definition: A young man who has many characteristics of a naughty boy: he's independent and willful; he does what he wants when he wants; he doesn't follow trends, they follow him; he often looks scruffy, but hip; he's not looking for trouble, but there's a sense of danger about him. For these reasons and more, he's irresistible to women. He's a heartbreaker with five o'clock shadow.

Last time I dated a guy. He acted nice to get a date with me. But I felt the sense of danger and all the things they mention in the definition above when I met him twice. Thats when I ran and declined to see him again. I don’t understand why they label all girls as desperately wanting a bad boy. I met a few and they actually make me cringe. They try to convince you to do things you don’t want to. Or slowly override your boundaries to get what they want from you. There is nothing appealing about a jerk or future sophisticated sociopath.

I find myself often offended by the million YouTube videos and articles on the internet that are brainwashing boys and man into becoming a bad boy (jerk) to get a girl because that’s what women want. I completely disagree.

My opinion is if you fall on a woman like me and act like a jerk. I will leave on the spot and I don’t stick around to get my boundaries eroded. Either you respect me or you can F*ck off (sorry for the language)

Are there anyone else that thinks this bad boy attitude thing is complete rubbish and counterproductive for social norms?