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Search Results: crush on an older guy
What makes a guy want to hold a girl's hand?
I used to hold hands or walk arm-in-arm with guy friends all the time. Something about the dynamic changed midway through college when the guys all started looking for our serious dating companions and I kept to my...
Is my affectionate male friend straight or secretly crushing on my bi best friend?
My male best friend is bisexual, and we have a mutual male friend from the improv community. This guy has more female friends than male friends. He talks to women naturally, but with men he seems unable to start a...
Anonymous
(25-29) Should I confess my crush to an older senior before he graduates?
I have this crush on a guy at my school (that’s how it always goes, right?). I’ve been thinking about telling him that I like him, and in a casual, non stressful way. It’s in terms that I’m okay if he rejects me or...
TimidKoi
Xper 1 Age: 17 Why is my crush oversharing embarrassing stories with me?
We've been talking for a couple days now and he's told me that 'i make him remember stories' and he sent me an old picture of himself after he fell off his scooter and hurt himself, yesterday he told me 4 extremely...
wadnerus
Xper 1 Age: 22 Is an 8-year age gap (22 and 30) too much for dating?
Hi guys, I'm 22 and recently got a crush on a guy who's 30. I didn't know about his age because he is so athletic and looks younger. Meanwhile we came across in a friends group and never had the opportunity to chat alone...
Anonymous
(18-24) Is it creepy to text an old coworker to ask him out a year later?
There was a guy I worked with about a year ago, he was only there for a couple months. I had a big crush on him, which is really rare for me. We worked in different departments so we didn’t talk a whole lot but he’d...
dnbeuajen
Xper 2 Age: 21 Why do some people keep asking when am I going to get a man or start dating again?
Okay so I just turned 36 almost three months ago and I haven’t dated since I was like 21/22 years old back in 2011. The only relationship I’ve had was with a guy that I went to school with. We’ve known each other since we...
MizzArtFreak89
Xper 5 Age: 36 This guy im interested in is twice my age and is sending mixed signals, how do I know if he likes me?
Ok a little back story, I am 24F and I work at a family owned store with my grandparent and mother. The guy I am curious about is a frequent customer and family friend. He is in his 50's, and we will call him Paul . Now...
Anonymous
(18-24) Crush on an older guy — are these signs he might like me back?
I have a crush on an older guy in one of my classes, and I’m trying to figure out if he might like me back. He’s a little shy and awkward, but some of his behavior has been making me wonder. Whenever we talk, we have...
forestfairystix
Xper 1 Age: 24 I dont know what's up with him?
I met a guy on a dating app, and after a month of talking, he came to see me one night after work. We hooked up, but during the movie he seemed distant, and after sex I drunkenly told him I loved him. He said, “I’m not...
Anonymous
(30-35) Should I just give up on finding men or dating?
I’ve struggled with dating all my life. I can’t seem to keep a boyfriend or I get cheated on. I’ve been cheated on, dumped and one I dumped. My friends kept saying to give my guy friend a chance since he’s the only guy...
Anonymous
(25-29) What does it mean when guy friend who you have a crush on calls you homie?
I made a friend on social media. He gives me a lot of encouragement on my running. He has flirted with me where he would send me these emojies 😍😍😍🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 or say beautiful views 😍 where I'm in one of the pics. He...
Sweetascandy1990
Xper 6 Age: 36 What is an underrated green flag in a guy? Are there any specific things you are attracted to?
As I’m getting older, I’m starting to find things I once took for granted becoming more attractive. For example men with emotional maturity, accountability/ willing to admit fault and committed to truly getting to know me...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is it rude that I don’t want my guy friend to come over to my house because my dad embarrasses me when he asks him about a dating?
I don’t have guy friends over because my parents would ask them if they have girlfriends and why don’t they dare me and I’m a great woman. One says we’re good friends but they other three months ago joked and said they I...
Anonymous
(25-29) What does it mean when a girl texts you out of the blue to “check in to see how I was doing and wishes me well.” is she interested/attracted to me?
So I haven’t spoken to this girl in like 7 months or so. We used to work together and she was my manager. Before I left and quit that job, because of family issues, I told her and my GM that I would be back but now I’m...
Anonymous
(36-45) An old crush of mine says she doesn't like her boyfriend. Obviously I wouldn't swoop in immediately IF they did break up, but should I wait it out?
We recently hung out for the first time since highschool (only 3 years ago) and she asked me about my love life before I could. I was kinda hopeful but she said she was with the same guy since highschool. Throughout our...
Anonymous
(18-24) Is it just me or others get such dreams too?
When I was a teenager I sometimes dreamt about being forced to marry a stranger. It would always occur in my house, my parents would force me and even lock me inside my room so that I can't run away. Often the wedding...
Anonymous
(18-24) Should I just marry for stability?
I'm 29 years old. There is a 56 yr old who is interested in marriage and having children. He already has a disabled daughter from a prior failed marriage. I have no interested in caring for her. Right now, the only reason...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why do tall women get garbage for preference in taller men?
I mean we’re allowed to have preferences for tall men too. Look as long as a man has a great personality, funny, honest and trustworthy, short, average or taller, then it wouldn’t matter. I was told by my best friends...
Anonymous
(25-29) **HELP ME**Why is datingchallenging for me? I make an effort but I keep failing. I’ve neverexperienced love/been in a relationship. HOW IT FEELS LIKE?
I’m 20 years old and currently in my second year of college. I’ve never been in a relationship or experienced love, so I’m unsure what it feels like. I find dating quite challenging. I’ve attempted it but haven’t had...
Anonymous
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