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Search Results: dealing with being hurt
Should I cut my mom out of my life or no?
I’m 30 years old, and I feel like I’m still fighting for permission to live my own life. I grew up in a very bad environment. My mom struggled with meth addiction for years, she’s bipolar, and she also has MS. Because of...
Anonymous
(30-35) What’s the most desperate thing you’ve done for money in hard times?
I am dealing with tough times currently and doing everything I can to keep my head above water and it seems it isn’t enough, I am about to lose everything I worked my ass off for , so I am at a point I will do pretty much...
Is it just blatantly obvious that he doesn’t care about me or is there possibly another reason?
I dated this guy for 6 months. We’re family friends, so it wasn’t casual. He’s been under a lot of pressure the whole time. He’s building a company, working 12-hour days, constantly dealing with investors and stress....
Anonymous
(18-24) How come it takes shorter amount of time? Do anyone else recognize this?
Years ago when I was let down by a friend, I eventually cut off, it took me longer to melt throughout. Now as it has happened with another friend I went through. everything in a matter of a few days, lot shorter, and now...
Noredcarpet
Xper 5 Age: 46 Are you honest with your therapist?
Right now my diagnosis is generalized anxiety, but honestly I'm tired of depending on other people and being sick but not sick enough and dealing with a job that doesn't care about your life is sending me to some dark...
Anonymous
(25-29) Does she need to “grow up,” or is she just overwhelmed?
I want some outside perspective on a situation in my family. A 28-year-old woman in our family was recently hospitalized because her vocal cords were closing and she couldn’t breathe. She was terrified, felt unheard by...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why is my guy friend keeping me around while he is dating someone else?
I have been friends with someone for 8 years. He liked me for a while in the beginning and had asked me out a few times. I had some really hard things I was dealing with at the time and wasn’t able to date anyone but...
Anonymous
(36-45) Do you think my friends are right about being hypocritical for not wanting to date autistic men and have high standards?
My friends says I’m very hypocritical because I refuse to date autistic men. They told me it’s better if we don’t date neurotypical men and reject them because they won’t understand us and they will hurt us so I’m missing...
Anonymous
(25-29) Repost: Do I give her up? I'm still felling lost, I still need help?
I’ve been seeing this girl exclusively since August/September. In December, she asked me to be her boyfriend. I hesitated. I was nervous and caught off guard, but she was patient. After Christmas, we were drinking at my...
MustBeMusic
Xper 1 Age: 28 I need help, do I give her up?
I’ve been seeing this girl exclusively since August/September. In December, she asked me to be her boyfriend. I hesitated. I was nervous and caught off guard, but she was patient. After Christmas, we were drinking at my...
MustBeMusic
Xper 1 Age: 28 Guys, what am I dealing with? What could this guy want?
I am getting mixed signals from my guy best friend for the last year. We have never had sex but sleep next to each other several days a week. When he is having a bad day or upset or emotional, he comes to me, even if in a...
Anonymous
(36-45) Was I too judgmental of my friend? Am I being controlling like she says?
My friend had a girlfriend but had a crush on a guy. She would constantly talk about him and ask me to read tarot on him. I told her I wasn't comfortable with encouraging that anymore. She also texted him and was...
Lalalove11
Xper 6 Age: 26 Am I in the wrong for declining my bfs sexual advances?
I (25f) have been with my boyfriend (24m) for almost a year. Safe to say, its been a battle. And simply, just toxic. Our issues would be down to a lot of name callings, accusations of infidelity due to past experiences,...
Anonymous
(25-29) What can I do with my life, it’s such a mess?
I’m 32 years old, I severely injured my back and have bad genes I guess. 3 herniated discs in my lower spine. I have a very narrow spinal canal so when the discs herniated, they started pinching my spinal cord. I hurt...
Anonymous
(30-35) The beginning is always the hard part?
I became friends with benefits with this guy at my job (I know stupid of me) because I had no intentions of dating after becoming hurt from previous person. For 4 months just doing me was peaceful and happy. Then my...
Anonymous
(30-35) Is it possible that my boyfriend may have actually fallen for the other woman he cheated on me with?
I stayed after finding out my boyfriend was messing around with some chick he works with. I saw messages between them and he swore to me things would stop etc etc. Weeks have gone by and he and this girl have done...
Anonymous
(25-29) How long after dating a guy would you see he’s desperate?
So asking bc my friend just started dating this guy she met 1 month ago and they have made huge milestones within that time like the guy has introduced his family already and he spends every second he has out side of work...
Anonymous
(25-29) What is the best way to help my boyfriend?
hello. weve been together for two years. he's a great boyfriend. he loves me, takes care of me, and does a lot for me. he wants me to be happy. he's my best friend and the love of my life. however, he has a bad habit of...
Anonymous
(25-29) Understanding Workplace Politics: HR Is Not Your Friend
Here is part 3 in our series on understanding workplace politics. The dreaded entity that is HR. As I wrote in an older take for men on the job Advice for Guys: Avoiding A Sexual Harassment Case , one of the biggest...
Why do women think like this? Do I really sound hurt?
From my experience I have dealt with three men who came into my life to “humble me” it could’ve been because of my looks, personality or whatever but when I was dealing with my narcissistic ex I was able to understand why...
amanda_jaileen
Xper 5 Age: 28 