Is it possible that my boyfriend may have actually fallen for the other woman he cheated on me with?

[Anonymous]

I stayed after finding out my boyfriend was messing around with some chick he works with. I saw messages between them and he swore to me things would stop etc etc. Weeks have gone by and he and this girl have done everything under the sun and it’s more than sex. He hasn’t stopped dealing with her. They have had sex but they have also been on outings, dates, confessed their love and deep liking for one another and they’re planning more dates. He has even had this woman in his bed that we share together. He pays the bills, it’s his home but I’m his girlfriend so I’m there very often so I consider it our home and so does he. I mean, my paintings are hung up on the bedroom walls and I’m sure she saw them. It hurts to know my boyfriend has gone this far with her. He’s risking what we have to do these things with her. We have a strong mental connection and I guess you can say we have a soul tie. We have been together for a while and I never thought he would betray me. The woman hasn’t been messy. She hasn’t been leaving evidence of her being in our home or messaging me, finding my social media etc or things like that but I know she knows about me.

[kylee2437]

The connection isn’t as strong as you think it is, if it has gotten to this point. The connection is very one sided and it’s up to you on whether or not a one sided strong connection is something you want to deal with possibly for the rest of your life.

[Anonymous]

Sadly yes… it seems he has fallen for her. Most likely though it’s just infatuation and the thrill of being with someone new, he’s basically building a whole relationship with her. It’s more than just a sexual affair, it’s a whole ass relationship. The fact that he got caught but still kept on pursuing her shows that his attention and love is no longer with you alone…

[dfdfdffffdfdf]

nah , it is lust

lets say he make her as his girlfriend , sooner or later he will cheat her too , with another girl

[Danny_dan92]

You decided to stay with someone that cheated on you… think about that

[DishLady]

Sigh... WHY are you with a jerk who cheated on you? Period? Who cares if he's fallen or not fallen for her? He is a cheater... he's done this to you... he'll do it to her... it's a cycle he's created to satisfy nothing more than his own D and ego. Step away from this guy...

[SeriouslyNotSerious]

Sweetie, you have to wake up from this nightmare before it destroys you.

You are sacrificing everything, but at what cost?

[avery58]

You have to leave him for your own well being. He's a scumbag cheater, if he cared about you he wouldn't have betrayed you.

[MzAsh]

You’re not his girlfriend. She is.