My boyfriend is cheating on me with the same woman?

[Anonymous]

he’s always had infidelity issues because he’s in the entertainment industry but this certain woman he can’t seem to leave alone. He has slept with her multiple times and they have similar interest fashion, music, sports. He doesn’t know that I know. I went through his phone and found out that they met up at an hotel and he stayed the night with her. We have a son together and he just lost his brother I would think this would bring us closer but instead he went to her for comfort. does he love her,?

[Anonymous]

He cheats because he can, at this point it is a choice that you are making because there are no consequences for him.

You are both teaching your child/ren that this is what they should expect and what they deserve for themselves later in life when they start having relationships with people.

[OlderAndWiser]

WITF does it matter whether he loves her? You have a son together - I understand - but you are staying with some guy who goes out and fucks another woman whenever he feels like it, while you are sitting by and doing nothing! How low is your self-esteem?

[Asker]

because i’ve been with him for 6 years!!! i don’t feel like another woman should be able to come in and take my place

[OlderAndWiser]

Another woman HAS come in. But she didn't "take" your place; it was GIVEN to her by your boyfriend. You just don't want to admit it.

[Asker]

sleeping with someone is taking my place she will never be his wife. i’m the one living with him she’s just a cum rag in my opinion

[Asker]

isn’t *

[OlderAndWiser]

You are living in denial. You are the girl that he fucks if he can't get with the other girl.

[OlderAndWiser]

You want your kids growing up learning about relationships by watching you two?

[Asker]

how could that be possible when we live together? she’s the girl he fucks if maybe I don’t want to fuck him. are you trying to say she’s better at sex than me?

[Asker]

i mean she the girl he fucks ***

[spartan55]

You are focusing on the wrong thing here. Guess you don't want to deal with the elephant in the room.

[Asker]

what exactly is the elephant in the room?

[spartan55]

Oh my. I hope you are trolling here. So you don't think that your boyfriend cheating on you is the bigger problem here?

[Jamie05rhs]

Unfortunately, he seems to have a connection with her. I think you should confront him about it and ask him "Are you in or are you out? Because if you don't love me, then you can leave right now."

[Asker]

yeah I feel he might have a connection with her as well I addressed him all he did was lie and say she means nothing to him. but how could that be if you’re continuously sleeping with her i’m so confused

[Jamie05rhs]

The fact that he lied isn't a good sign. I think you should break up with him.

[Anonymous]

Why are you with him? Don't you have any self respect? He's a f-ing douche cheater. You should run from this.

[Asker]

because i’ve been through thick and thin with him and I refuse to let another woman take my place. The groupies don’t bother me as much she does only because he keeps in contact.

[Opinion Owner]

He's fucking another woman in front of your face. You have a kid with him. Maybe he's even gonna get one pregnant. It's humiliating and you're letting it happen and watching him do it.

[Asker]

he doesn’t know that I know I haven’t confronted him. I was hoping that after his brother died he would cut off all communication with her and come to me for comfort but he still went to be with her 3 weeks later. I’m not sure how to handle this we live together

[Asker]

and he should definitely respect me enough to not get her pregnant. they use condoms

[Opinion Owner]

... Smh

[spartan55]

@asker
How INF do you know if they use condoms or not?

[slatyb]

If you want a monogamous relationship, you need to find a new boyfriend.

[VikingWarLord]

If he's a high status male, you are knowingly signing up to be shared with other women.
Don't complain because you knew.

[awkward_author]

He seems to have feelings for her, at the very least.

[Naughtyboy71]

If you know he fucking her you need to find you a guy to fuck

[Asker]

i’m sure he’s just confused and having mixed feelings I don’t want to get involved with another man unless he leaves me for her

[Naughtyboy71]

I understand do you masturbate
Like to chat sometime we far apart is all we can do

[888theGreat]

that makes you pretty stupid or very desperate

[fireforeffect]

Why is he your boyfriend then?

[Titttybear]

Don't go through his phone

[Asker]

if i don’t go through his phone i’ll never know what he’s up to he’s not honest

[Titttybear]

That's why he cheats on u u need selfesteem

[Asker]

makes sense

[Asker]

i used to be his hoe turned housewife