I fell in love with someone else. Does that count as cheating on my boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

I just fell in love, I fell in love unintentionally.

[DaveJord]

No its not cheating as long as you end the relationship before you act on it. This shit happens all the time. Just tell him its not going to work out between you to, and if wants more detail then... just say that its nothing he did, that's it more about you than him and that you do not want to get into and just wise he would respect the fact that you do not want to talk about it more.

[Кураж]

No it doesn't.
Cheating is when you keep leading your partner on in order to keep benefiting from the relationship, while you actively pursue romance or sex with someone else.

Simply having feelings for someone else is not cheating.

[Apulu_3]

No it isn't cheating unless you made a move. Love can't be due to choice. It just happens because you don't have any control on your heart. I will say be a loyal girlfriend for few months and if you still have feelings for other man then break up with your boyfriend instead of cheating on him.

[pixie215]

stuff happens in life no matter who wants to cast stones at you, life happens, randomly souls connect. i would have a sit down with your boyfriend, because if your heart is with someone else why lead him on and hurt him anymore then you have to?

[Subarugirl]

Yes, that is called emotional cheating. When you love someone you make the choice to love someone it isn't just woops I fell in love. You can't control who are attracted to but you can control who you chose to love.

[Sasha_Gee]

Emotionally, your heart is with someone else, so to speak. Shut down those feelings or re think your relationship. Do not let it go out of hand.

[boggboss]

How do u fall in love by accident without cultervating feelings for someone else and holding them in the regard you are supposed to hold your partner

[Citizenkirk]

You gotta accept some responsibility for your actions and thoughts.

[TacosRAwesome]

Depends on what led to falling in love. If you're not polyamorous as a person then it might be time to question your relationship.

[Anonymous]

Yes, you should break up with him. Simple as. But it is your responsibility that you fell in love with someone else so take some accountability.

[jahaims]

Means you don't love your boyfriend and you aren't in love with someone else. You have lust and infatuation.

[CallmeTheKnight]

You just don't automatically fall in love with someone. You're responsible for that happening.

[GlassTop]

Yes. That’s cheating. Just leave your boyfriend so you don’t physically cheat.

[Anonymous]

It does if you were still with your boyfriend when all this was going down.

[Anonymous]

yes it counts. Then dump your boyfriend and be with the person you fell in love with.

[Anonymous]

If it’s with another person, yes

If it’s some dumb shit like “I fell in love with Jesus”, then no.

[Anonymous]

If you can fall in love with someone go at them while you still have the chance. If he was really your boyfriend then you wouldn't know that other person is alive

[In_Trance]

did your boyfriend know about it and approve of it before it happened? If not, you're cheating

[SnakeBoop]

emotional cheating at the very least.

[JoyGirl]

Self control is important.

[Nagahime]

It's only cheating if you act on it.

[MountAverage]

How is that cheating? It's a feeling.

[Juxtapose]

That is emotional cheating.

[Wise4myage]

Not unless you have sex with that person.

[crmoore]

No, it's not cheating.

[Aphrodite801]

No. But how does this even happen?

[888theGreat]

If you do anything and are with him

[Alexis_1996]

I say it’s emotionally if it anything.

[jimmy2]

No that means he not the right choice

[Hanrej]

No it isn't.