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Was I too judgmental of my friend? Am I being controlling like she says?

My friend had a girlfriend but had a crush on a guy. She would constantly talk about him and ask me to read tarot on him. I told her I wasn't comfortable with encouraging that anymore. She also texted him and was flirting.

Later on she told me she had broken up with her girlfriend. We kept talking about crushes etc. But the truth is she was still with her girlfriend. So she did lie.

She did apologise and stuff for betraying me. But I just saw she wrote a lengthy spiteful post about me on Reddit and said things like;

'what kind of intrusive controlling friend are you?'

- *"Your judgment, your need to play the ‘moral high ground,’ and your attempts to make me feel guilty have crossed the line."*

'the way you've handled everything is self centred'

- *"You’ve made me feel like I’m some kind of villain in your story."*

- *"It’s not about keeping things from you; it’s about me dealing with my own mess in my own way."*

- *"If I didn’t tell you everything, it’s because I didn’t need your judgment or unsolicited advice."*

- *"You talked about me taking advantage of you and how I betrayed you as if I intentionally wanted to hurt you."*

'im not here trying to explain myself to someone who's so stuck on their own moral code'

- *"Even my therapist thinks you took this way way to another level and projected your insecurities."*

- *"You’ve made it clear that you’ve lost trust, and honestly, I’m not interested in trying to rebuild it."*

- *"Take care of your own issues, and let me take care of mine."*

Was I too judgmental of my friend? Am I being controlling like she says?
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