Family & Friends

Is my friend overreaching?

I have one friend who always seems to have a problem whenever I get a job interview or start a new job.
This started last year after she lost her job due to her own negligence – she would call in sick often and lie about things like family deaths. Her workplace found out and eventually fired her, even after giving her several chances.
In December I landed a new job and was really happy. The day before the interview I was on the phone with one of our male friends who gave me advice and asked me to update him after. After my interview I called him and told him I’d got the job. Later that night I called her too, but although she congratulated me, she quickly became angry that I told him first and said she was done with people. I felt bad at first, but then realised he had only been told because he had asked.
A few months later she asked the same friend to help her get into his workplace. They weren’t even speaking at the time, but he agreed to pass her name on. She was rejected the same day.
In May I got another job but soon realised the company wasn’t good. When I told her, she accused me of hiding things from her and not telling her where I worked. I showed her screenshots proving I had told her, but she never apologised.
Later I told her I was asking the same friend to help me apply to his workplace. She became angry and said I shouldn’t ask him because of how he had treated her. I explained that their issues were partly due to her leading him on while having a boyfriend. She said she didn’t want friends like that, then later acted like nothing happened – again with no apology. The stress made me drop the job opportunity.
Now I’ve started a new job and I haven’t told anyone. I'm debating to leave this friendship in 2025.
Is my friend overreaching?
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