My friend is acting weird and I’m overthinking it?

[LostandFound__x]

My friend’s energy has been really off the past couple of months.

We speak every day but sometimes she’ll go a day or two ignoring me and she never used to do that.

She also doesn’t seem as enthusiastic when we talk anymore.

I asked her if I had done anything to upset her and whether she’s ok. She apologised and said she’s just been feeling upset because of family problems.

I’m not really buying it. And I can’t help but take things personally. It’s triggering me to overthink I did something wrong. Especially when she is going days ignoring me.

Knowing her she is having guy problems but I can’t imagine that affecting someone this much to ignore their friends…

[LaurenM1997]

All you need to do is be there for her and listen to her and let her vent to you

[LaurenM1997]

Thanks for the superb opinion ☺️

[Abdulwahh]

In all honesty Overthinking i know is your weakness, but it can get so bad that it can chase men away, because this will lead you to constantly check his phone and struggle with trust and lead to you accusing him of cheating lying, etc.

[jahaims]

They are probably depressed or it wasn't ever a friendship and they are fake

[NathanDavis]

try to be a more understanding friend...

[LostandFound__x]

Can you help me please? I’m stubborn

[NathanDavis]

just try to put yourself in her situation...

if you told a friend something, you would want your friends to be understanding and to believe you

now, if you really care for your friend... then maybe you should offer her your help and support, and ask her if there's something you can do for her or to help her situation, even if just distractions, you see... friendships do have to work both ways and just our on way and for our own benefit

[LostandFound__x]

Alright thank you

[Jennz6]

Sounds really bad