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I dated the most stunning girl from my small religion/culture. She was phenomenally beautiful in my eyes. She had v rare features like bright green eyes and fair skin and very natural. Never seen a girl like her - how does she even exist? We had a really good connection/chemistry too!

The reasons she gave me for breaking up with me were that I was tight with money. I did gift her small things, pay for the first 5 dates, and then we did 50/50.

I wish I gave her the full princess treatment. I wish honestly 😭 I am that way inclined to provide but my sisters mainly told me not too. I wish I could go back as she told me she felt protected when I would pay for her things. She wanted the soft life. She loved the whole ‘daddy’ thing.

The part that confused me was she didn’t want to give up work when she gets married.

I was good to her, but I should’ve just worshipped her so I know I tried my best even if she left so I would have no regrets.

My first girlfriend and I should have given it my all. I still tried my best but look back at small mistakes I made. My life is over 😭

Lets say you’re dating a guy and go to his place for the first time. He seems nice and the place is neat but it smells like a floral scent basically. Would that turn you off?

I want a girl that likes me for me. So I pay for the first 5 dates then split 50/50. In my case with my ex, we setup a joint bank account and put equal money inside. She agreed to this.

Then when we were about to breakup suddenly, you didn’t make me feel special. She knew I’m not looking for a gold digger and a girl that likes me for me. Especially as she knew about my background before meeting me!!

I make double her, and come from a wealthy background. I do go after pretty girls and she did say she’s used to being provided for.

Is there anything wrong with what I did?

If she actually liked me she would stick it out right? Not to mention I was good to her, consistent and caring/sensitive!

If you are really rich is it okay to split bills with your beautiful girlfriend who makes more modest money?

You pay for like the first 6 dates then split it 50/50.

Reasoning, both are working and you’ve only known her for a few months. You as the man don’t want to be used for money/date a gold digger. You want a girl that likes you for you.

Is that fair play?