A woman made moves on our first date—should I see this as a red flag?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

It could be. I've had this happen. The woman that did it was fresh out of a marriage. I'm certain she was doing it for two reasons. 1. As a confidence builder for her. I can see why she wanted to feel loved and sexy. But 2. (And this is the one i really had a problem with). She was doing so her ex-husband could know about it. She was using me. And i was definitely not cool with that. She didn't really want to be with me. I could have been any body to her. Or at least that's the message it sent.

I would definitely pump the breaks. This is about BOTH of you if you're to have any kind of a future together, not just her.👍

[Nikki1989]

The fact you did nothing is in itself a red flag. She should find someone more worthy.

[Asker]

I didn't say that

[Anonymous]

Why are you dating then if that bothers you?

[Asker]

It's only been one date so far

[NathanDavis]

the fact that you can't decide for yourself... should be a red flag

[Asker]

Must as well nuke the site then

[NathanDavis]

were they karate moves?

[Asker]

Yep! Sneaky ones, told her "Good one!".

[HollyK21]

What moves?

[Asker]

Invited me back to her place, then after having sat on the couch, asked if I'd be more comfortable in her bedroom.

[In_Trance]

Only if you're gay