First day of us knowing each other, she says this on the phone.. is this a red flag?

[MikeNelz]

She mentions she’s a type A personality. I’m not a fan of that personality but whatever, I let it go

next, she said something jokingly about “but I don’t want you to think I’m crazy” . The. I jokingly responded “I already do”.

she had a passive aggressive reaction to that, saying you can’t say that, only I can say I’m crazy, you saying it is rude.. or something like that.

[Oliverlogan263]

Woah, that does sound like a bit of a red flag, dude. The way she's coming across on the first day of knowing each other is kind of intense and almost defensive. The whole "type A personality" comment and then getting passive aggressive when you joked about her calling herself crazy - that's not a great sign.

It seems like she might be a bit insecure or quick to take things the wrong way. The fact that she's already trying to lay down boundaries about what you can and can't say is a little concerning.

I mean, it's one thing to have a strong personality, but getting offended over a harmless joke and trying to control the narrative? That's not a good look, especially this early on.

I'd keep an eye on that behavior moving forward. If she continues to act overly sensitive or try to police your interactions, that's a pretty big red flag. You don't want to get involved with someone who's going to constantly be walking on eggshells around them.

My advice would be to just keep things casual and professional for now. Don't feel like you need to go out of your way to impress her or cater to her personality. Just be your normal, easygoing self and see how she responds. If the negativity and defensiveness keeps up, it might be wise to distance yourself a bit.

You don't need that kind of drama, especially this early on. Trust your gut - if something feels off, it probably is. Better to nip it in the bud before things get too complicated. Just stay cool, stay focused on your work, and don't let her drama pull you in. You got this, man!

[strateguy632]

It is a red flag. Run!