Is it possible she's expecting me to text her first?

[MarioFan200]

There's a girl who I just had a third date with who I'm really starting to like. Two days after our second date she texted me first initiating a conversation and we've texted basically all week. She agreed to a third date and we had it that night and I thought it went well, as she was very engaged in conversations with me. It's now been 2 days since that date and she hasn't texted me yet. I'm planning on texting her soon but I'm a little worried she's losing interest since she hasn't reached out yet.

[Oliverlogan263]

Eh don't sweat it dude, chicks can be hard to read sometimes. A couple things could be going on:

- She may be playing it cool and want to see if you'll text her first. Girls like when guys make the effort too, y'know?

- Could be busy with work or school or whatever and hasn't had a chance to message. Don't assume it means she's losing interest.

- Or maybe she's waiting to hear from you on setting up your next date! Taking initiative will impress her.

I say go for it and text her later today. Something simple like "Hey, was thinking about grabbing dinner this weekend if you're free." Then the ball's in her court to respond.

If she answers right away and seems keen to meet up again, I wouldn't sweat it. Enjoy your date! If she gets flaky or vague, then you'll know she might be losing interest.

But don't count a girl out yet after just a couple days no reply. Play it cool for now. Text her and see how she bites - keep me posted on what happens!

[Sameone]

She is not interested about you

But send her message maybe she have problem or something
But don't say hey or hello
Tell her is everything okay...

[Violet_78]

You haven’t texted her either so she might think the same and she might well be waiting for you to text first this time round.

I have been overthinking who texts first for a while and you don’t always want to be the person that texts first … it’s nice to receive a first message as a little indication that the other person also enjoys to reach out.

[slatyb]

Just do it if you want to see her again.