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I studied psychology a ton. It only made me a know-it-all refusing therapy, thinking I am already 100% healthy. Why is that, and what can be done?

When someone pointed out a bad behavior, i ripped myself into pieces to stop it. And then it just so happened that a million external reasons force me to keep doing it. So in my mind, i am actually cognitively 100%...
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Why do I still care about someone who rejected and hurt me so much?

Me 26, a master's student, Living in private accommodation shared a flat with a Chinese girl. We become the best friends. I fell in love she didn't, I told her, she rejected, we still were the best friends. Then...
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As Christianity suggests, is loving everyone a sustainable lifestyle? Can you always forgive and have no hatred?

Christianity and its love-centered worldview really interest me. However, when someone is cruel to me I often cannot be forgiving. It feels like being naive and I want to respond in kind. Are Christians able to overcome...
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Am I unreasonable for refusing to hang out with my friend’s boyfriend who once flirted with me?

Am I being unreasonable? I have a friend who has been on-and-off dating the same guy for about four years. For years, she’s been asking me to come to his house in Surrey and spend time with him, even though I’ve...
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If someone of the opposite gender disrespects you by text, can you forgive and forget?

I won't if it went too deep. Even after putting up strict boundaries around it.
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Would you forgive someone who cheated on you in love or friendship?

Be it in friendship or romantic relationship, if someone cheated you, would you forgive?
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Can you be very forgiving yet still have a hard emotional limit?

I have a strangely big tolerance for forgiving things… But I am not ultimately a forgiving person. I give people a benefit of doubt, I also play along and give them a chance to fix their wrongdoings. But If I have...
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What mistakes were made in your upbringing?

Our parents aren’t all-knowing angels — they’re human, with their own struggles. We forgive them, but some things shape us deeply and take years to unlearn. My mom had untreated anxiety and depression. I’m grateful she...
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Am I delusional or does he actually have at least a little crush on me?

(the rest is in the photos because of the word limit. forgive me for sounding like I'm desperate, i haven't had a crush on someone since 8th grade) so, me (21 f) and my girl bsf (22 f) are in college together and play...
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Was he just after sex?

Hi all. I was seeing a guy for a month, met up 9–10 times, mostly at his place, outside or drove in his car. His ex cheated on him but he forgave her, then they broke up. He plays the guitar, I sing & we planned to...
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Is it really possible to both forgive and forget when someone hurts you?

Someone hurt you. Said some harsh words. There may be plenty of other situations. They say time heals everything. But can you forgive and forget? Is it possible to do both?
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Should I still be friends with him? Advice?

No one ever talks about how hard it is for you to stay friends with someone you basically dated. My guy friend and I were basically dating (only he was too insecure to actually commit). He had an identity crisis which I...
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Would you forgive your partner?

Would you forgive your partner that you have lived with for 1.5yrs if everything else about them checked out, they treated you good, bought you things, had a house, nice car, good father… but he cheated on you with his ex...
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Am I being dumb by falling for someone before my divorce is finalized?

I’m divorcing my husband I told him a few months ago I wanted a divorce. He is a pathological liar and cheater and I keep forgiving him and eventually stop caring after he cheated on me while I was pregnant and I lost the...
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How is it being weak if you stay?

Something I never understood is how some girls can turn on others who has had a crises of some kind in their relationships, thought of leaving or perhaps left, but then returned to their partner as he admit where he went...
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How do I deal with this ex colleague/ best friend?

Me and Hayley were very close friends for years — we worked together and spent loads of time outside work. Things changed when another colleague, Chloe, started spreading false rumours about someone at work. Hayley and I...
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How come it takes shorter amount of time? Do anyone else recognize this?

Years ago when I was let down by a friend, I eventually cut off, it took me longer to melt throughout. Now as it has happened with another friend I went through. everything in a matter of a few days, lot shorter, and now...
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Do You Know How Much You Mean To Me?

My question was inspired by @osheeT who wrote the most heartfelt opinion on my question "How Do You Think You Will Be And Feel When You Are 70"? Or something like that. He made me realize (as real tears were streaming...
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Guys, Do you get angry if your girlfriend cheats back?

Ok so I have been in a long term relationship with a guy that cheated on me in the beginning of our relationship. I forgave him but I was extremely hurt so I cheated back and never told him about it. My question is if he...
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Is my hatred for fake apologies understandable?

Here is why: My 7th grade female bully by the name of Massiel B Gaitan set me up twice with a fake apology. The first time she faked it for a week, only to then say she and her friends were never my friends, it was just...
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