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I asked mine to do two things. He talked to me about us two hanging out this past weekend. It wasn’t set in stone plans but I was like sure. He mentioned during the week maybe having to work. I didn’t hear from him all weekend.

I texted him and asked me when we talk about plans and things come up I would like him to send a curtesy text. I told him I was out with my pals so it is no big deal. It’s just a respect thing.

He also talks to girls and other girls in front of me. I told him even though we are just hanging out, I really would prefer it that he didn’t talk about other girls or to other girls in front of me. When I’m hanging out with him or spending my time with him, I kind of want him to myself. Again it is just a respect thing. That I require a certain amount of mutual respect from the guys I talk to or hang out with.

He got mad and said it was to many rules and ramifications for two people just hanging out. He wished me the best.

I think boundaries are important including for people just hanging out.