Search Results: getting attached

1 mo

How can I stop anxious attachment and learn to love myself in relationships?

I had a really bad upbringing my parents were getting divorced and fighting over custody. For many years of my childhood. We don’t have any pictures of when we were younger maybe like 5 or 6 it never used to affect me but...

Anonymous

(18-24)

2 mo

How do I know if he’s genuine and avoid getting too attached?

I’ve been seeing this guy for like 3 months now. I like him and he’s super sweet to me. He wants to hang out and do things and have sleep overs he buys me gifts and pays for my gas he’s super sweet. But I have issues...

Anonymous

(18-24)

2 mo

Why does he keep complimenting me non stop?

I met this guy on a dating app. He told me that he wanted marriage and children. But then after two weeks of romanticizing each other, he told me that he was scared to meet since he was scared of liability and...

Anonymous

(25-29)

2 mo

His texts suddenly dropped off after we got closer—should I be worried?

I've been seeing this guy for a month now and we still talk everyday and I was just over at his place 2 days ago and had stayed the night but it's like the responses aren't how they were? (A little context) We used to...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Family & Friends

I’m struggling… what do I do?

I’ve been struggling for a year with betrayal and feeling betrayed by my mom and my cousin to the point I had a nervous breakdown and my life completely changed.. Im 28.. never really dated. I met a man who I felt was...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why is he switching between his feelings?

There’s this coworker I know. He had a massive crush on our other coworker. He even broke up with his girlfriend to show that he is serious about the coworker. She has a boyfriend though and there situation right now is...

Nachos28

Xper 3 Age: 28

Friend from middle school.. haven't seen or spoke to each other for almost 15 years. He is a good friend to me although I'm afraid of getting a crush?

Hi all, So I'm speaking with a guy that was my best friend in middle school. I've been speaking and exchanging reels on socials for almost a year. We haven't spoken in almost 15 years but he's been the only guy that...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Marriage & Weddings

How do you stop getting gamed by men who are lying to get you in bed as an autistic and (gullible) woman?

Not all autistic women are gullible but I read that autistic women and girls have a higher percentage of being SA’d than neurotypical women. I have been games by men who say things just to get you in bed and they leave...

LoveWinner6

Xper 1 Age: 36

Other

Which of this grand/sophisticated European art aesthetics do you like the best?

Based a setting I'm making for a story, I'm getting more attached to Europe's grand art style trying to take inspiration from them. Usually they're done in cathedrals or palaces but usually more elaborate in...

Aiko_E_Lara

Master Age: 28

Based a setting I'm making for a story, I'm getting more attached to Europe's grand art style trying to take inspiration from them. Usually they're done in cathedrals or palaces but

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What should I do?

Besides being in person, I think I have almost everything I want in a relationship, except the actual title of being in a relationship. The guy I like, says that we’re friends, and he considers me his closest and only...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Do guys even feel bad for ghosting a girl after taking her virginity?

Last year a guy ghosted me after he took my virginity. Granted we didn’t know each other well, I regret it in hindsight because I wanted it to be more special. But I still see him around quite a bit, he looks at me like...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Acting different?

My friends with benefits has been acting different. We’ve been on and off for years. Lately though he’s been different and I don't know how I feel about it. Usually he just bails after sex but he’s starting to sleep for a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Does this mean I’m done?

I have a friends with benefits, ghosted him a couple of times. And cried over him. It’s been a roller coaster. We text every day. We’ll more like all day every day. Gone out to eat etc. he said he dosent want anything...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do people not see narcissists do not care for their wants and needs only their own?

Yes, the narcissist can seem very good and charming at first. Most narcissists aren’t going to flat say they’re wanting you for let’s say money, social status, as a enabler, arm Candy, etc. But they’re doing it only to...

Summeroflove

Influencer Age: 30

I am anxiously attached to my boyfriend?

I recently started to get very attached to my boyfriend. I get very anxious when we separate. When he is at work I am constantly scared & anxious. I call him & text him a lot during his shift. He drives for an hour weekly...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Did I over react?

So I had this friends with benefits. We were good. No strings attached. I got it. He’s text me every day with stupid memes or to check up on me etc. if he didn’t message me I didn’t reach out to him. We got close, at...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Would you date someone who is pregnant?

I (23f almost 24) and currently 24 weeks pregnant. The baby’s father isn’t in the picture. When he found out he told me to get an abortion and left. Said not to hit him up and threatened to take me to court if I try to...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Learning not to get too emotionally attached

Getting emotionally attached to someone is something most of us do without even realizing it. We meet someone who makes us feel seen, understood, or happy, and before we know it, we start depending on them emotionally....

LiaRaven

Influencer Age: 29

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