How do I know if he’s genuine and avoid getting too attached?

[Anonymous]

I’ve been seeing this guy for like 3 months now. I like him and he’s super sweet to me. He wants to hang out and do things and have sleep overs he buys me gifts and pays for my gas he’s super sweet. But I have issues trusting people and I get attached really fast. I don’t want to end up hurt in this situation and I wanna stay strong and not get so attached to him. How can I do that? We also come from different cloths and I don't know if this is something that can be long term but I don’t want to end it with him I wanna stay strong and be able to enjoy but not get extremely attached.

[Nikki1989]

That is up to the man, but it is typically difficult. Men will always tell you what they believe you want to hear.

[ProbablyClueless]

Take time to explicitly define the relationship and make sure that you are giving and receiving the same level of effort to/from him.

[spartan55]

How does he know you are genuine? It works both ways.

[InknKink]

The worst thing a person can do in life in act out their fears.

[Staximus]

If the guy is sincere then you better be sincere and stop fucking around, or you ar going to lose him because he's going to think you're not insincere

[Staximus]

I mean you're going to lose him because he's going to think you're insincere, so stop acting on your fears

[Alex-Snow]

You need to explain to him that you want to take things slow and if need be hold off on sex for a while also. Be upfront about your concerns.

[LC75LC71]

Go all in or get out. You're an adult right?

[WhitneySnow]

Tell him straight up how you feel

[Grilo]

Well you have to take the plunge