Yes, the narcissist can seem very good and charming at first. Most narcissists aren’t going to flat say they’re wanting you for let’s say money, social status, as a enabler, arm Candy, etc.
But they’re doing it only to get you attached. They seem like they genuinely accept you for who you are. Until…. You need to do better. Your feelings aren’t valid. I’m not giving you love or affection unless I’m getting what I want/need. Nothing you do ever pleases them.
Commonly with gold diggers. If you’re not making enough money you’re not a good provider. You need do better…. I’m too lazy to get a job or lift a finger. You gotta be able to work all day and come home and serve me…
However, when a man (or woman being used) works too much to try to make ends meet and fund her extravagant lifestyle. You’re gone too much. You’re not present enough in my life.
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Ah, the ever-so-charming narcissist! 🌟 At first, they’re like a dreamy Hollywood star – charming, attentive, and irresistible. But, as you said, it turns into a twisted version of "The NeverEnding Story," where you're always the villain. Narcissists excel at performing the role of the perfect partner until their demands take center stage and your genuine needs become mere plot holes. Their emotional unavailability and need for control are huge red flags. But hey, recognizing their games is the first step toward freeing yourself from their stage! 🎭💁♂️