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Friendship not reciprocated, is it me?

Quick facts about me... Currently in 18 year toxic relationship, turned 40 this year, male, never had real friends all my life due to shyness and anxiety. I feel I jumped into my relationship to fast for the sake of...
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Did I repeat my father’s story by risking my life for my son twice?

Long ago when I was 17, my father got in between an attack meant for me. An obsessive crush couldn't take no for an answer. My father ended up getting stabbed a couple times and he barely survived. He still has the scars....
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Why is my best friend of 13 years suddenly pulling away after flirting?

We’ve been friends 13 years, both had relationships etc and we finally got back into each others lives again in October, he asked me to join his church, meet his friends and family.. the first few months we texted daily,...
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How can I stop getting friendzoned and actually get a real date?

I have tried to get a date for my whole life. I am 27 and have never been in a relationship. It hurts and is an embarrassment, I want to fall in love, or even just a companion is good. But I am not getting anywhere....
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How can I turn down a coworker’s crush politely without hurting my job prospects?

I am a student on work placement, well into adulthood. I’ve noticed that one of the male trainers there around my age seems to have a big crush on me. I’ll be working on a task for my tafe assignment and I’ll see him...
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Why do people suddenly treat me like their emotional rant sponge?

I have now turned to an emotional sponge for many now. It's just I was the one ranting to everyone. I stopped it, started being good in my skin and with my life, made peace with all my issues cause I don't have any...
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5 Signs You Are A Really Good Person. Are You A Really Good Person?

https://youtube.com/shorts/3b1qHlj9hBk?si=BxJOGFCy6apY9nEZ I heard these 5 signs of a really good person and I believe that I always have been. But lately I have been wondering if I should stop 🛑 or at least cut...
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I am a rape survivor and my boyfriend has a rape fantasy. Can someone explain the attraction to this kind of fantasy?

In 2014 I was sexually assaulted and almost murdered by a boyfriend. I have C-PTSD from that. I didn’t date after that for well over a decade until I met my current boyfriend. We’ve been together for a year and things...
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What can I do about a security guard who followed me and demanded my number?

The shopping centre I always go to after University has this one huge tall muscular hairy South-Asian, maybe early 30s man that I am lowkey really terrified of, and I'm not talking just appearance, but he stares in a...
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Is it normal to feel this insulted by my dad crediting physical punishment for my good marriage?

I'm still feeling humiliated, hurt, insulted and upset by what he said yesterday to a couple family members. Luckily my husband doesn't speak Spanish very well but he's catching up to some phrases and sentences. He...
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Why does my fiancée initiate sexual tension but always pull away?

Hi friends. I’m coming to you for opinions or just thoughts and feelings about some stuff in my relationship. I’m 23 (F) and my fiancee is 26 (F). We have been together for almost 5 years now. About a year, maybe a year...
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My cat started laying on my chest 2017. Why do you think He's doing this?

I am not saying this is why, my feet both had gotten broke one night He came over and did that. He's been coming over to lay on me ever since. I figured he was doing this to tuck me in, when i woke up he wasn't on me....
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Now that I finally got a job, will my family stop nagging me and back off?

After months of my aunt and uncle nagging at me for not working or getting a job. I finally got a new job. I started two weeks ago. Got an interview on April 16th and started Monday April 20th. I was already exhausted by...
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Should I forgive my boyfriend for lying with such a dark excuse?

So me and my boyfriend had plans... he canceled last weekend... he said he can't make it. I called him and I asked if everything was OK, He said he had a dream of a car accident and I got hit by a truck. So today he...
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She said I’d be a great father but a bad boyfriend—what does that mean?

This girl who said that, we had a pretty beautiful date. We went to the park together, and sat in the good sun. I played with white flowers, and put them in her hair... we also went and got chocolates and treats....
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What actually gives you closure after someone hurts you… getting even, or genuinely letting go?

You hear people say forgiveness sets you free… but others feel like closure only comes after justice is served. What actually gives you closure when someone you love hurts you deeply?
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You hear people say forgiveness sets you free… but others feel like closure only comes after justice is served. What actually gives you closure when someone you love hurts you Show More
I forgive and let go
I move on… but I never forget
It depends on how deeply I was hurt
Getting even gives me closure
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How can I cope when a favorite autistic student says they hate me?

We work with students on the autism spectrum. One of my students that I absolutely adore, refused to do his work and expects us to do it for him. He missed out on recess because he had to do his work. He was getting...
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Is this true or?

So my dog likes to counter surf a lot and been trying to teach him not to. I had made bagels this morning and I just finished them and he tried to get them but I quickly pushed him away (not hard or anything) I had to act...
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Blake Lively Is Toast... but There Might Be Hope

About a year ago I wrote a Take about the whole Blake Lively - Justin Baldoni case in which Lively accuses him of sexual harassment Blake Lively Is Getting CRUSHED By Justin Baldoni - And I’m Glad . Since then we’ve...
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Guys, any advice for this and have you dealt with this yourself?

I’m an anxious texter and I struggle with overthinking and texting too often and unsending so when a guy says you stress out and exhaust / over exhaust yourself etc is he losing interest? Like he will also ghost and come...
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