Search Results: mutual feelings

9 d

She rejected me but spent the whole day with me—does she just want friendship?

Do you think there is a chance for improvement, or for her feelings to change towards me? Is it over, or does she just need more time? Will pursuing her work, or is it better to stay just friends? Two weeks ago, I met a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

10 d

Friend mistook group hangout invite for a date and is telling people—how do I handle this?

To put it simply, me and my two friends were planning on hanging out together. The two of them are in a relationship and I didn't want to third wheel and wanted to bring one more friend. I wanted to bring a friend that I...

Anonymous

(18-24)

28 d

I have a boyfriend but like another guy at school—what should I do?

For starters, I have known my boyfriend since early February and we connected through mutual friends. He goes to a different highschool than me but loves close so we manage to hangout every weekend and it gives us the...

Anonymous

(18-24)

1 mo

Hooked up with my toxic ex on a trip after years apart—how do I face him now?

I dated my ex about 10 years ago when they we were 18. It was my first love, but the relationship turned toxic quite quickly. He was disrespectful, flirted with other girls, nearly cheated, and mostly only seemed...

Anonymous

(25-29)

2 mo

Women, does a kind ‘not right now’ after a work crush ever turn into a yes later?

I (28M) have worked with a colleague (22F) for a little over a year, and over the past few months we’ve gotten pretty close. We chat a lot, joke around, and often go for runs together just the two of us. There’s been a...

VicarrHanley

Xper 1 Age: 28

2 mo

How can I be a trusted guide and friend to my son without being permissive?

I'm comparing my parents' relationship and what I would like for my son. I feel more emotionally secure with my mother than my father. At least I never feared her. Even though my father has always been a good provider and...

Vesuvius87

Influencer Age: 39

Family & Friends

I’m struggling… what do I do?

I’ve been struggling for a year with betrayal and feeling betrayed by my mom and my cousin to the point I had a nervous breakdown and my life completely changed.. Im 28.. never really dated. I met a man who I felt was...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Ladies, what would you do in this situation?

You’ve been dating a man for a while. Feelings are mutual. He invites you over, and you notice a strip-club pole in his living room. When you ask why it’s there, he says: “That’s for you. Any woman who wants me has to...

Filthy_Immigrant

Yoda Age: 39

You’ve been dating a man for a while. Feelings are mutual. He invites you over, and you notice a strip-club pole in his living room. When you ask why it’s there, he says: “That’s

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Flirting

She made her move, now what?

A co-worker with a boyfriend really likes me and has shown this quite explicitly. From the moment we got to know each other there was mutual interest. We really get along well, but soon it became clear she had a...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Should I escalate?

A female co-worker with a boyfriend has been showing interest in me lately. She wants to be near me, does all the flirty acts and even pressed her boobs against my body for quite an extended period when standing next to...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Family & Friends

A a coworker that I’m no longer cool with told a mutual friend that another coworker stated that I’m obsessed with him. What should I do?

This other female coworker and I used to be cool, but fell out since she thought I wasn’t a good person to her for (feeling too sick to come to her dinner in the cold rain and ever since then she’s been holding a grudge...

Ccmama

Xper 6 Age: 28

Girls, Guys, Writing on the wall?

10 years long distance. (brief breakup) 16 years total. Self employed in diff state where we both once lived. I moved after break up. He looked me up. Reconnected and he bought us a home in my state. Asked me to leave my...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Why does doing the right thing feel so bad afterward?

I’m travelling and staying in a hostel. I met a woman there and things escalated quickly into kissing and making out. In the moment it felt exciting and validating — it was my first real make-out experience she put my...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How common, innocent is it that girls take the initiative?

I hope everyone who celebrates Christmas, the holiday, enjoy themselves 😀 I am wondering how common is it that girls reaches out to guys the way my partner describe has happened to him: according to him a girl, not doing...

Noredcarpet

Xper 5 Age: 46

I indirectly confessed to my crush and he isn’t talking to me anymore. Did I ruin everything?

19F and 19M. I got the feeling that my crush liked me (spoiler alert: he doesn’t). I thought I’d test the waters by talking about my crush to him. I never mentioned the name even though he asked twice. He started...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Why do woman give up on potential mate if he is kinda shy?

So I’ve had many of them obviously I’m still a virgin obviously can’t even be sure they were ever interested in the first place or just in my head. Guys have good reason enough not to approach it’s not even a conversation...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I have a crush on a girl I don’t even know — how do I stop comparing myself to her and move on?

Hey guys, I’ve developed a crush on a girl I don’t actually know. We’re from the same ethnic and religious background, same community, and I found her through mutual friends. But lately I’ve fallen into this unhealthy...

Anonymous

(36-45)