A a coworker that I’m no longer cool with told a mutual friend that another coworker stated that I’m obsessed with him. What should I do?

[Ccmama]

This other female coworker and I used to be cool, but fell out since she thought I wasn’t a good person to her for (feeling too sick to come to her dinner in the cold rain and ever since then she’s been holding a grudge against me and going by what other people have said about me not making it or her dinner. I confronted the guy coworker about it , but he told me he had no idea about saying that I don’t trust that entirely since I thought it looked like he was smirking a bit, but every time I asked him , he said he had no idea. He didn’t outright deny that he didn’t do it as most would. I don’t trust that or definitely not one that I used to be cool with since a part of me feels that she just doesn’t want me to have someone to talk to since she’s been holding this grudge against me so long that she had blown a gasket at me when I was trying to clear our names from a misunderstanding at work (this made me end the friendship since she had done this to me a time before that).

[Noredcarpet]

The only solution that comes to mind is u acting as if u are not obsessed with him. In time if not already others can "fear she will make up things about them too. These people like her can only enjoy a ride for so long before people figure out on their own what she's like. If u adress it, confront her, she may get the drama she wants or he will really think there is some truth in it the more u try to prove it's not. And so what if true? U could have the hots for him for a day, a week, but then it's gone and you really got the hots for someone they don't know, whi's to say, that's your business, your heart, don't overshare especially in a workplace where co worker are ex friends and now sworn enemy. I woukd focus on my work and without having her or him tangled up focus on other coworkers there. Create a superficial but effective wall of yours. People who are like her I find it hard to believe are genuinly liked by those who know her. And they all will with time. So u don't have to do a thing. Unless u yjink this starts to get really creeoy then I would tell my boss about it or look for a new job where I don't have to deal with her, but that's me.

[DishLady]

Just walk away from this mess. It seems they’re both just gunning for you. Let them stew in their own 💩….

[Anonymous]

Stop treating your workplace like it is high school.

[qwerty2469]

Shoot up the office with a machine gun.