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I’m 23 living with my mom who quits her job whenever she wants. We are both working and I told her I want to leave in March which is 50+ days away.

She gets upset and says how I’m messed up for leaving the lease and she said I didn’t give her enough notice but when she quits her job ALL of the bills are on me. Our rent is $1095. Even when she works I still pay more than half the bills. I’ve sacrificed my life and given up things such as school even hanging out with friends because I was always being the provider. She blamed me saying she could’ve gotten govt. assistance for housing but I ruined it since she has gotten off of it.

The past 2-3yrs she has had 10+ jobs not even staying at those places for 5 months!! I’m tired and I want to leave. I told her that I’ll stay until the end of the lease but honestly my flight has already been booked for early in the morning on March 29th.

What should I do?

I also need help planning my escape because she gets up early for work & my house stairs is NOT quiet.

I recently tripped and fell onto the ground (hard pavement). I now have my left knee bruised, but the worst is my right kneecap is currently injured. I am limping, and I cannot really walk much. Certain positions/movements also causes pain on my kneecap. My left wrist is also injured, and it is painful to move. I decided to wait for a few days to see before seeing a doctor.

My boyfriend and I don’t live together. But recently, he had been staying at my place like 2-3 weeks in a row. He goes back to his place maybe for a night, and he comes back to my place the next day. He had been barely seeing his friends. Maybe like once in two weeks.

We had plans to do something on the weekend that requires to walk. Most likely, won’t happen. But without negotiation, he went ahead and decided to meet up with a friend on the weekend. He also planned to go back to his place to do some housework, and to visit his parents. He was planning not to even come back for the night. I get it, he assumed we have to cancel because of my injuries.

Obviously, mobility is an issue for me. Im unable to do certain things. Also, especially because I have to walk my big dog. When he was telling me about his weekend plans, then he noticed I might need help with stuff (example walk my dog, cooking, and grocery shopping). I don’t even think I can drive. I am even having difficulty changing.

He insisted to me not to worry, he will figure something out.

Shouldn’t he just consider to come back to my place after seeing his buddy? Or maybe even cancel his plans with his friend until next week?